What is the first thing you notice in people?

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V_Injector · Accepted Answer

I guess I'm in the minority because I voted for voice and how they speak.

I live in a society that likes to claim they don't judge a book by it's cover, but apparently, very few of us listen to what's being said and how they're saying it first... according to the results.

Look, here is my logic... all that other shit is easier to fake. Your average fucking salesman literally practices all the other options in the fucking mirror. Sure, all that other stuff will tell me how fake you are or how much of a try-hard you are, but I'm going to figure out what kind of piece of shit you really are much faster by listening.

What is the first thing you notice in people?

... and we all are some sort of piece of shit. Just because a dog shit can be picked up, have makeup smeared on it, dressed nice, and sprayed with perfume doesn't change the fact that it is a dog shit you found at the park.

HawkPerception · Accepted Answer

I always notice their physical features first obviously. The way they dress is first for me. I value aesthetic quite a bit. Secondly, their body (simply do they look obese or fit). Then facial structure and features. Then their demeanor and body language. And finally, how they communicate (tone of voice, how quickly they're talking, etc.)

Account · Accepted Answer

Their expression. It helps me instantly figure out if they are indeed a person or a "monster". The depth of the stare or lack of. I can tell the difference and don't ask me how.

DishLady · Accepted Answer

Posture and facial expression. Hands. Additional manners of expression (body language, tone, wording)….

ManOnFire · Answer

Body language and vibe. I'm someone who picks up on that in people very quickly, and I pay attention to behaviors, if someone acts rudely or not, and how someone acts with me versus how they act with others.

MicahRaine · Answer

The first thing I notice is what their eyes say. After that, body language and how they phrase sentences.

Body language helps me know if they are uncomfortable, domineering, etc. It could be eye contact, how they stand/sit, what they do with their hands, or something else.

How they phrase sentences helps me know what type of person they really are. Most people who are faking something give it away when they talk.

dustybiker2 · Answer

How they treat those around them. Are they open and welcoming. Are they showing body language that is shut off to a certain degree. Years of dog training and reading them without voices leads me to this, but it is accurate.

Ευδεμονια · Answer

I honestly have a bit of curiosity towards some proportions.  How the nose is big, eyes are spaced, visage is symmetrical, ears are big or long, of eyebrows are painted or true and if they’re full.

Billlewis · Answer

Her feet, if they're visible. Otherwise, her figure and weight. I much prefer a full figured woman.

MemeSupreme · Answer

their looks and overall vibe like do they look nice, mean, shy, sus, tweaking, and just stuff that tells me what they probably are

on_my_knees · Answer

I chose confidence because it's all about whether she can bring me to my knees and paddle me like a bad boy.

paledreams · Answer

The way they dress - those big tits rarely tell lies 👀♀️👀♀️ lol or unique bra's / implants 🥛🥛 😋 mmm

Nikki1989 · Answer

Voice, personality, and demeanour.

strangeatcircleK · Answer

It depends on what I see first. Probably more than likely what they are wearing first, then their face. But I'd say looking at the full person all at once. Id see the face first

DrPepper12 · Answer

Actually all. Humans are inately evolved for everything you listed. Gotta love the "fuck or fight" mentality we have

Anonymous · Answer

Whether they have a demon inside of them or not and whether they have taken any of those COVID shots (John 10:10 in a syringe).

SoJust · Answer

I pay close attention to the character issue.

Iron_Man · Answer

Just a human face walking with a skeleton body

jahaims · Answer

If they are comfortable being perceived and if they are fake

Anonymous · Answer

I am a face guy.  Either I’m attracted or not.  Butt and breast next but I prefer petite.  If you have the rest and green eyes, I may ask you to marry me.

midnightmoon05 · Answer

All of the above.

katiesmuff · Answer

I think it is the smile and expression

7Phoenix7 · Answer

Eye contact and engagement.

SweetJoyGirl · Answer

Aura. The kind of aura they give off.

Ms_Facesitter · Answer

Their posture, fashion

Peridot25 · Answer

How annoying they are

ChiTown33 · Answer

Their demeanor

Yannae · Answer

That's different from person to person.

Wise4myage · Answer

Eye contact and smiles.

RyanK9b · Answer

Mood and thoughts from their body language

Clyde_123 · Answer

Their behavior. How they treat people around them

Adogdog · Answer

Face and eyes. What about you?

noohair · Answer

The glow from inside.

yes_goddess · Answer

voice and how they speak

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