Why do Asian girls prefer white blonde American or European men?

[Anonymous]

I come across them all the time on social media and they date white blonde American men or European men, so I'm very curious.

[meepmeeperton]

Well the thing is interracial relationships in general aren't that common statistically. In the US more Asian women marry Asian men than they marry white men, and of course white men marry white women far more than Asian women.

However, interracial relationships of Asian-Americans are far more likely to be white male with Asian female, with much fewer Asian male and white female.

This is in stark contrast to other interracial pairings which are much more even between genders. For example, white males with Hispanic females are about as common as Hispanic males with white females.

So this is probably exacerbated by social media. Interracial couples often get more attention on social media because they are seen as interesting. So if you see an Asian interracial couple at all the woman will most likely be the Asian one with a white boyfriend or husband.

I will say that I am a white American man dating an Asian-American woman and it works out quite well. She's super cute and feminine and doesn't have a problem with a more traditional relationship. That can be a bit harder to find with white girls these days.

[RavVid]

Well they treat them better than their male compatriots do and I did see an Asian girl say with approval that they treat you as a friend as well.

Undoubtedly western guys have more resources but that doesn't seem to be the deciding factor. Despite suggestions otherwise they aren't dying to get out of their own country and leave family. I think it comes down to western men being more appreciative. On the western male there is a lot to appreciate in the femininity of Asian girls.

You are saying blond (not blonde) and I presume you mean hair. Not many men dye their hair so fair hair will usually be natural, rare and contrast with the universal black Asian hair. Just the usual dynamics of the unusual being attractive I guess.

[Breanna_nonbinary]

This question bothers me. You’re asking a question that you has a flawed premise and at its core is racist. First of all it’s not that they prefer one thing, it’s that you only see it. Considering how large the Asian population is you only see the very small percent here in America. In Asian I’m sure they prefer Asian males.
Second why does it matter? Even if it were true, the fact that you generalize about one ethnic group’s personal preference is racism. If I were to say that all white women like black men because of their BBC, that would be very racist. The same generalization you’ve made is exactly the same thing.

[avery58]

I don't know if that's as true as before, since korean celebrities became popular lots of girls like Asian men so I don't see why their own women wouldn't as well. But anyway, fair skin and round eyes are a beauty standard in Asia. Economic stability/prosperity is also seen as attractive there and Western countries are developed, have good economies.

[DaveJord]

I don't think it's an Asian woman thing. I think white men are just fed up with white women or Western women in general.

Asians tend to be more traditional. And there's a reason why traditional relationships between women and men worked for so long.

[HawkPerception]

I've observed that as well. Asian girls seem to only be into mostly white and Asian men. My guess is that's because they associate wealth, intelligence, and living the high life when it comes to white people. Asian culture tends to be much more materialistic. On an off note, I've also noticed that Asian women don't seem to be into facial or body hair in general.

[RebelinSteel]

Social media says one thing, reality is a different thing. It’s fairly rare for Asians to date white here, this is mainly down to the numbers game. I call bollox on it for real life.

[BonzoInBitburg]

A lot of Asian celebrities are mixed race so many grew up wanting mixed race kids.

[handsomelad70]

They're like 95% of women who love white boys.

[RealityCheck4Ya]

White Blond American and European men like and want White women of the same race as the, the way nature intended. Asians are not White.

[Lynx122]

Most people date their own race.