Is a bodycount of around 20 too much, normal or low for a girl in her late 20s?

[Anonymous]

There is this girl I've known since high school. She told me when she lost her v card at the age of 20 with her first boyfriend. She hasn't had a serious relationship since they broke up and she recently told me she raked up a bc of 19 in the last 7-8 years. I meant its a lot for what personality she has, but she told me it's very low compared to her girlfriends. She is actually very kind, loyal and caring, who wants a husband and family, but somehow always picks the phuckboys whom she can't keep for more than a couple of weeks. She says it's inevitable to increase the count if you are actively dating to find the person right for you.

At this point I don't know whats normal. As a guy, I had relationships, ons's and casual dates but I'm still well within the single digit range. Girls I've talked to about this either married their 2nd or 3rd boyfriend or are in their triple digits and proud of it. I'm not shaming anybody here, I just want to know what is normal these days.

[meepmeeperton]

I don't think that's really normal. I mean a lot of college age girls have a body count of like 10 but that's still a lot to me. 20 is a lot but of course she will have friends with 30, 50, 100, etc.

If you're well within the single digit range I'd recommend finding a girl who is the same. They are still out there and I don't think they're considered abnormal.

[HawkPerception]

For me that's a bit too high. I would say a max of 7 for girls in their 20s. Anything after that is clearly her having a hoe phase. Just my take on it.

[PeachyPie93]

I think that is too many. You don't have to fuck every guy you date lol. Just think she has more than you, how loyal can she be if she is so accepting to let any guy who is sweet to her inside her. What do you think will happen when you end up working lots and not giving her enough attention. She will be under the next guy who will.

[DishLady]

Depends on the girl. Guys tend to have a higher s-number than girls.

[WindAtMyBack]

That's like triple the average for a lifetime. So yes, it's well above average. Whether or not it's "too much" is entirely up to you.

[Nikki1989]

20 is not much for someone of that age. People should be dating as much as possible when they are younger.

[jahaims]

Depends on your personal opinion