Are all good guys/girls taken by their 30s?

[Anonymous]

I feel like all good girls/guys are taken by their 30s. After that, they either have weird baggage, or they have kids and are divorced. I have been glancing at some dating sites and for every one that I am kind of attracted to there are 15 that I have no interest in.

Dating pool is Jacked after 30

No, you can still find great attractive people.

[TheRealPepperPotts]

1. Baggage/crazy/creepy

2. Divorced or Widowed with kids

3. Unattractive or obese

4. Broke with no ambition or plan, but grandiose and unrealistic. Never buckles down and does the work.

Yeah, pretty much. There might be an exception where someone has spend most of their time building their career/completing school and now feel prepared to date, but that's a unicorn. There's a real possibility you'll need to compromise in order to settle down with someone. Either looks or kids; I don't recommend the other two. :D

[Anonymous]

Definitely not all. Your lack of matches could have varying factors, including location, but there are still many single 30 somethings. There’s a whole show about it (Sex and the City. Insecure is one as well).

[ProbablyClueless]

Honestly, yeah. If you're single after 30, there is ALWAYS a reason. Sometimes the reason is understandable and good. Most of the time, it's bad.

I am no exception to this rule. I'm 31 and single. And there is most definitely a reason. That reason is that I refuse to bend over backwards to dote on and emotionally support women I date to the extent that many women require.

[Nirmroth]

Obviously if you date in your late 30 the chances of dating a divorcee or someone who has kids is much higher than in your 20s

If you rule those people out then ofc you can't be happy

[idonotlikeyou]

Good men don’t exist at all in any age group. All men are self-absorbed, arrogant, and convinced of their infallibility and virtues they don’t actually have. Many specialize in telling strange stories about how impeccable they are.

[NamerOfStars]

Are you under the impression that being in a relationship somehow wards off emotional problems? We're ALL nuts by thirty; whether you're dating or married or not doesn't matter.

[HawkPerception]

I mean... I'm 30. That kinda hurts bro. Gonna make me cry in a corner. Truthfully though, my main flaw is where I'm at in life, so it's justified that I'm single.

[paledreams]

I voted A and I turned 30 months ago and had this feel throughout my 20s - I'm not bothered, as now I can treat my 30s and ongoing as if I'm merrily retired from dating ; while still working, paying taxes, enjoying my life to old age and beyond - :)

[BonzoInBitburg]

They're not all taken but they aren't on dating sites. When they are single, they aren't single for long

[PeachyPie93]

There are still some but it's slim pickings.

[Anonymous]

I wouldn't say ALL. But after 25, not 30 generally all the best women are wifed up. So I'd recommend any guy take there time and really vet them from then on. Because what's left are considerable gambles.

[noohair]

If it is all about attractiveness, you are screwed forever.

[OddBeMe]

I mean with divorce rates so high I don’t see a difference.

[MisterWack]

No, they aren’t taken.

[BarryLiverstone]

When you say good what does that mean?

[skunk3n]

Don't bother answer.
This is just a complain-post and low quality-post.

[Asker]

@skunk3n LOL. Im sorry I can't match up to high quality posts like "Does he like me" "Why do guys flirt with me" "Do guys ever regret mistakes they make". Like, wtf are you talking about? I was legit asking if people find that their dating options are limited as they get older. How is that any different than the posts I mentioned asking for advice?

[skunk3n]

But If you're going to ask a question based on your subjective perspective, why not explain your reasoning?

[Asker]

@skunk3n Look at the response I got. And you want to talk about low quality.
"Good men don’t exist at all in any age group. All men are self-absorbed, arrogant, and convinced of their infallibility and virtues they don’t actually have. Many specialize in telling strange stories about how impeccable they are."

[skunk3n]

I couldn't care less about a negative bias..

As I replied earlier, why create a post without your reasoning?
It's impossible for us to know what you find "good guy/girl" with 0 context, more than just a "glance" on dating profile. It's like passing by a night club and say "everyone is some drunk losers", without actually enter..
Who knows, maybe someone don't like alcohol but can party anyways?

[BarryLiverstone]

@asksr I originally asked you what a good person who. Please let us know

[Asker]

@skunk3n I kind of did. I guess you're not able to extract information as good as others, but thats ok. I asked if there are any singles over 30 who dont have weird baggage, kids, divorced, who are reasonably attractive etc. That kind of provides context to what im looking for. My question was if others over 30 were able to find that. Many others have responded and have gotten the question so I have gotten a few decent responses. Its ok if you as an individual didn't understand the question though. You're just one opinion.

[skunk3n]

I appreciate your respect and consideration for a diverse range of responses, I guess (?)

But to now my understanding, we all should assume the opposite of your statements...
So, you could be looking for a dude in his 80s, without baggage?
Are you looking former monk?
Are you looking for a guy who's asexual?
Are you looking for Tarzan?
What is even 'reasonably attractive' etc?

by the way, just because you got other biased replies on your lowquality complain-post (which will mostly draw only complain-replies), and not lead to an actual discussion, WON'T make this post any better.
I'm here to discuss and hopefully support other users who has questions and not complains.
But that's just me, and i'm just "one oponion" .. I guess..

I'll report this Post as it doesn't lead to any discussion.

[Asker]

@skunk3n I think you meant "Opinion" Not oponion. Please consider your grammar in future posts.

[FunkyMonkee]

I haven't been.

[Anonymous]

Not all, but most.

[jahaims]

Most are.