How did I progress? What happens next?

[Iamcoming]

I saw a girl in the library and we chatted. I was embarrassed to ask for Instagram. Then I went home and since I knew his name, I searched his Instagram and found it. I sent a follow request but he declined. I can see you again next week. what should I do?

How did ı progress

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1 y

saw him again, I said hello, he didn't talk much because he had friends with him. She left early. She wasn't very pleased.

[Oliverlogan263]

Here's what I would recommend:

Don't be too discouraged that she declined your follow request. That was a good first step just introducing yourself and chatting a bit. Now that you've broken the ice in person, next time you see her at the library:

- Smile and say hi if you make eye contact from across the way. Keep it casual.

- If you're able to chat again, comment on something related to what you talked about before. Like if it was books, say "See any good new releases?" Just a friendly convo.

- DON'T bring up Instagram this time. Act like that didn't even happen.

- Focus on listening and asking her questions so you can learn more about her interests in a natural way.

- Try leaving the conversation with getting her number, like "It was nice talking, we should hang out sometime if you're up for coffee or lunch."

- Then text to set up a low pressure date. Something relaxing like coffee so there's no expectation.

- Make sure to be polite, smile, make her laugh. Compliment her smile, not looks.

The key is showing you're interested in getting to know HER, not just chasing her on social media. Take it slow, be chill. With a face-to-face friend date, she'll see you're a cool guy. You got this!

[Sasquach]

You saw a girl, but looked him up? They're into you if your connect request got denied like that - so find another girl/guy