Would you judge a guy in his 20's for dating a woman in her 40's or 50's?

[Anonymous]

[4ngelic]

i wouldn't judge him if he's with a 40yo woman and she's still attractive. it's uncommon and a bit suprising to have young dude x older woman couples, but it probs would be genuine in that case so i wouldn't judge him. if he's in his early 20s though i would judge the woman for being creepy.

though if it's a 50yo woman (unless she's exceptionally well conserved and somehow still bangable) or it's a 40yo women that's not attractive enough for the younger dude to date her, yea i'd judge him. he's either an asshole that's playing with her feelings to mooch of her or downright steal her money when the time is right, or he's a sugar baby/escort boy and that's kinda nasty

[MK1997]

That's literally what most women in early twenties do. Date old men for cash.

[4ngelic]

@MK1997 litterally no one does that

[4ngelic]

*literally

[MK1997]

Lol you don't have much life experience then

[Asker]

I'm dating a woman in her 40's who's still very attractive.

[Nikki1989]

I would be more likely to judge the woman.

[Asker]

How come?

[lightbulb27]

I wouldn't' say judge but I'd want to evaluate if he's in his right mind. I understand reasons why he would, but is he really thinking right for himself?

We all get these answers out of what is deeply programmed into us via our perceptions of ourself and experiences. If those things are distorted, so is your answer and how you see your life. Evaluating the past and what is trauma vs trueth, gets you to freedom, where you can make sound decision.

Chances of doing that without pain and suffering is low.

[Anonymous]

Judge? No. It’s not my thing because I want to have kids someday. But what’s right for me may not be right for him, what does matter is both peoples intentions that is very important.

If they’re both genuinely happy this is what matters, if people are judgmental many times they’re jealous.

[Pinkflowers400]

Yes, I think large age gaps are odd, regardless of genders. It’s like a mother with his son. I wouldn’t be vocal about it , though.

[Asker]

I've been dating and fallen for a woman in her 40's. A young customer at work struck up a conversation with me and asked if we were a couple, I said yes and she said "Oh, okay", then she went away.

[DrPepper12]

Not at all! My only concerns are if it's consensual safe and legal. After that it is none of my business and have a good time!

[LazerBean]

Of course, but people have the right to do that if they want.

[Anonymous]

I don't care if 2 consenting adults want to date regardless of age gaps either way

[LiamJHayden]

Nope. When I was 24 I dated a lady who was 41.

[Sasquach]

Hell yeah I would, but who cares your life is your own so why old you give a f what others think?

[HawkPerception]

Not at all. I don't believe age is a factor when dating.

[Apple1996]

Not if he's in his late 20s then it's fine

[MK1997]

No would love to befriend him.

[Staximus]

I'd say he's desperate

[Fireguy17]

nope, not at all.