Why is it a mistake for men to fall in love with women?

[Vegasrunner]

[Nik1hil]

Yes, Pursuing women for Love will destroy you.

However, Pursuing to create protect, and provide for a family with a woman, will not destroy you.

" Women sleep with men they want to sleep with, men sleep with women they can get to sleep with." - It hits deep, It says women if pursue love, they can get it. Men cannot get the girl they desire, it is very rare if a man gets the girl that he desires, usually, men settle with the girl that is pursuing him.

That is why men need to pursue things in life, a career, name, fame, and money. These things make men great for any and every woman.

Men are Goal oriented, When we talk, walk or do any activity. We have start - middle - end or everything. Hence, we are capable of achieving things in life, and it brings us satisfaction.

Woman are like "Drunk driver on information highway". They are not Goal-oriented. Emotionally vulnerable, and the worst part of it. Even if they achieve the Goal, They do not get the satisfaction. Because a woman's satisfaction is not in reaching the destination, it is in "Drunk driving" That is an emotional rollercoaster for them, and they feed on those emotions like we feed on, satisfaction and peace.

So, Stay Disciplined. Set your Goals and achieve them. If you meet a woman along the way, cherish her as long as she chooses to stay. Don't beg for her to stay. Keep working on yourself, and building a Garden.
Women are like butterflies, you chase them, and they will run away. You built a garden, and they will come to you. Funniest part is, if you built a garden. When butterflies come, enjoy them, but stay focused on maintaining the Garden. If you focus on butterflies, you lose the game.

[Drewtate]

Only the wrong woman. The bible speaks of it