How do I get a woman to leave her hair long?

[Counterclocking]

I’ve always loved women with long hair. When I hug a woman, I’d love to hold the back of her head, feel her hair and kiss it, and also kiss her face. I’d also love to play with her hair too.

[Oliverlogan263]

I get wanting what you like visually man, but telling a girl what to do with her hair isn't cool. Her body, her choice.

Best thing is lead by example - take good care of your own appearance to attract her naturally. Compliment her looks overall in a genuine way too, without fixating on one thing.

Over time as she gets more comfortable with you, she may let her hair grow out just cuz she wants to look good for you. But never demand it or make her feel bad about her looks. Trust that if the connection's real, little things won't matter in the long run.

Just focus on being a good, supportive boyfriend who makes her feel sexy and respected as is. Her joy should come first. Hair grows back - losing an awesome girl over some silly request won't. You got this bro, stay positive!

[Counterclocking]

Well, she has to look good for me if she wants to keep me. I don’t want a bald woman.

[Oliverlogan263]

I understand the attraction to long hair, but it's most important to make your partner feel respected and comfortable being themselves. Focus on cultivating trust, care for her well-being, actively listening without judgment, and accepting her as a whole person. Physical appearance is just one small part of a relationship. Her worth isn't defined by your preferences. Have an open, understanding dialogue - share feelings but also be receptive to hers. A loving partnership is a team where both growth and feel unconditionally accepted. Physical intimacy will follow naturally when both hearts and minds feel truly seen and valued.

[Counterclocking]

If she doesn’t meet my preferences, she’s not what I’m looking for.

[Oliverlogan263]

I get you wanna be with someone you're really into, man. But like I said before, making demands about a girl's body ain't the way. Even if you bail, all that does is leave her questioning her self-worth over something as small as a haircut. Ain't cool to make people feel bad over appearances.

Here's the thing - we all change and grow as we get older. You want a girl who'll be down for you through all that, right? Then you gotta meet her where she's at too. Like if you want a girl to see past looks, you gotta show you see past the surface too.

Looks are fleeting. Deeper connection is what really lasts. Maybe relax your "preferences" a bit and focus more on who she is inside. Give it time - if she's still the dope girl you like when the new hair grows in too, what's the big deal? Take pressure off and just enjoy getting to know her. That's my advice anyway, do what you think is right.

[Counterclocking]

Anybody that tells me not to care about her looks such as her hair needs to mind their own business. As is anybody that says her body her choice needs to mind their own business.

[Counterclocking]

Telling me her body her choice is like if I wanted a dog and you told me what kind to get. If I don’t like the way my girlfriend looks, I don’t even want to look at her. If she breaks up with me, good riddance. As it is, a shaved head on a woman for instance is a dealbreaker for me in the dating world. I don’t want a woman that looks like a lesbian. As it is I’m not a homosexual.

[CuriousHubby]

Who do you want to have the Lang hair? Realities or a future girlfriend?

Just talk sweetly about her hair. Girls love that.