How do I convince the girl I’m dating to leave her hair long and not cut it?

[Anonymous]

I love her long locks. I love the feel of her hair when I’m hugging her. If she doesn’t like me telling her what to do with her hair she can dump me and find someone else.

[Rosexøxø]

Handle it the same way a lady would ask her man to shave his mustache/ beard, or ask him to not shave it/ them.

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A guy may be more understanding, though.

Maybe ask her nicely; show her you love her just as she is. You’d miss that version of her (possibly). Show her a video of the lady asking her man about the mustache/ beard, and his nice reaction, and follow up (if they have videos like that).

Delicate situation, but she shouldn’t feel at all bad about it because you’re saying you like the original look, and wouldn’t want her to try something new just because she may be bored with it

Or

tell her how you feel and ask her if this can just be temporary, and indeed, let her have her fun temporarily.

Compromise. Be a couple. You got this 🙂👌

[SecretsofKB]

So at the end of the day, it is her hair and she can do whatever she wants with it. You can express your preference, but you have no control over what she does with it.

[Asker]

Then I’d just dump her and find someone else.

[SecretsofKB]

That is completely within your rights. She can cut her hair if she wants to.

[Asker]

As it is we wouldn’t be compatible with each other. I’d have a preference how my girlfriend should look so I need to find a girlfriend who’d have a preference how I should look. If she’d look the way I want her to look, the two of us would be compatible. But, I have to expect that she’d be the same way about me in reverse. I want her to look the best for me and I want to look the best for her.

[SecretsofKB]

Okay. Good for you. Sounds like she will have much more freedom and autonomy without you.

[Asker]

A girl like that isn’t compatible for me anyway and good riddance. A girl that is willing to look her best for me and listens to me is compatible. If she’s not happy with me and/or I’m not happy with her we break up and move on.

[SecretsofKB]

Okay... I get it... still her choice in what she does with her hair.

[Asker]

Like I said we’re not right for each other. She doesn’t want to look the way I want her to look so we break up. The girl that looks the way I want her to is compatible for me. Before I date a girl, if she doesn’t like what I want in her, she just doesn’t date me. A pretty girl who stays the way she looks is the right one for me. Looks matter they’re just not everything.

[SecretsofKB]

Yep... you said that already.

[slatyb]

Just tell her you love her long hair.

[Sour-rose]

Sounds like ya just answered ya own question. Best of dreams tonight then/have a good day!