18 years age gap?

[Anonymous]

Hey everyone I’m F (24) and my kinda-ex isM (42).
I know. The age gap is WIDDDE, however we have been seeing each other for over 3 years.
Last year, I caught him with another girl when I went out and then I ended up blocking him and moving on although it was so hard because I’ve never felt betrayal like that.
Cut to this year when I ran into him in a bar and we hit it off again. Apparently the girl was his cousin. (Yet to be proved)
I know he has a wandering eye but we get along so well and are physically attracted to each other.
I need to guard my heart I know but is it worth redoing our relationship with new rules? Or just take what I can from him and leave it? I don’t usually get treated as well from men and he treats me and his house offers me an escape away from my parent’s house.
What do I do? Happy to give more info if needed. Please help, thanks!

[Static_In_The_Attic]

Love works in mysterious ways & if you never try you will never know. As for your heart you did let him in once & if you love him I’m sure you can let him in again. You two are both adults & if you two are in love that is all that counts.

Tell him you want to meet his cousin.

[Avicenna]

Well, do you trust him completely or not? It doesn't sound like you do.

[Asker]

True. But he also doesn’t trust me too because I get a lot of guy attention

[Avicenna]

Mutual lack of trust? Move on pronto.

[Nikki1989]

This rarely works for most people.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Stay friends with him longer, this will tell you whether he wants to be with you, as well as that you want to be with him. You do sound pretty young.

[noohair]

If you had your own life with your own place, you might not feel the same way. The situation is guiding your decisions.

[dean53AU]

Nothing wrong with that in my opinion 😉

[In_Trance]

Whatever works for you

[war_daddy]

the age is fine but wandering eye?