Why my mom called me a whore for wanting a first boyfriend / marriage at age 26-27?

[Sugar100]

I’m depresed as i wasted my entire life with parents everyday, while year after year I watched my friends family all progress & have the guy they like as their girlfriend boyfriend, meet family, attend Family parties & me alone at family parties as guys rejcted me sicne I was 13. The one guy that dated me many years denied meet family & would tell everyone he’s single or maybe have secret girlfriend that’s meeting his family all year. I watch everyone get married have babies, girls look at me weird as they have kids & I don’t & live with mom.
As I’m closer to 27, I’m yearning enter a relationship & live with a guy & have my own apt or house. Im depresed living with my mom as I’m closer to 30 I’m growing up.
I was eating & my moms talking to me & suddenly she hits me for no reason as Im not talking & eating.
we get into a fight & she calls me a whore as I can’t find a good guy that likes me back & that wants be my first boyfriend.
she uses excuse I can’t move out alone as im not married.

my parents don’t want me have kids or sex, they don’t want see me rich & moving ahead in life they enjoy seeing me alone unhappy broke

[art84]

My friend was a similar situation though she was about 18 years old and living with her mother and brother. She had found a guy friend who was a bit older (late 20's) and they started seeing each other. It eventually lead to her getting pregnant, her mother and her got into a huge argument. My friend eventually moved out and got married at the courthouse. I really believe had my friend stayed living with her mom that she would have never moved out and lived her own life.

[Sugar100]

Yea but I’m
Not 18 I’m 27 soon. I never had a boyfriend , no guy gets me pregnant no guy wants be my boyfriend , guys I like don’t love me back and want serious relationship. The one guy I love is gone we lost contact as we got fired at job and we didn’t exhange numbers or else he would of been my boyfriend by now.

I never met a guy that gets me pregnant and want live with me

[Sugar100]

Hence is why I’m 27 and stuck living with mom.

[onedarkcloud]

Time to put your big girl panties on and move out! Find an apartment Find a boyfriend fuck your brains out if you want. get a life they had their lives now it is time for you to have your own life. Sorry for being so blunt. You are an adult, not a child. Another reason why they want you around is to take care of them in their old age and do not do that spread the responsibility around the family not on you alone. SPREAD YOUR WINGS!

[Sugar100]

Yea but why my married siblings can’t take care of her why me? I deserve take care of them as I’m not married? It’s not fair 😓

[onedarkcloud]

That is why I said that it should not fall on you. My parents were saddled with his mother with Alzheimer's in a three room apartment with 2 kids and my father's 5 sisters all with their own houses did shit. But this is up to you to make a move now after this I cannot offer any more advice to you and only you can make a decision. Move before it becomes necessary to care for them and you become a spinster. Sorry for being blunt but no one but you can solve this problem move or become stuck as the primary caregiver the ball is in your court. Now do something before it is too late. THINK!!!

[Sugar100]

But I’m not married. Everyone moved out as they got proposed and marriage and I still never had a boyfriend I can’t find a guy that loves me back. That’s y I’m not married at 27. God doesn’t bring me my partner I don't know y he gave everyone a partner and not me

[Juxtapose]

You're an adult, remove yourself from this situation.

[Sugar100]

How is wanting a first boyfriend / partner / desiring marriage at this age a whore?

[Juxtapose]

It isn't. They are crazy.

[Sugar100]

I guess they think I’m in heat or something want sex badly with a b or husband 🙄

[Sugar100]

I want a companion , it’s normal be 30 and following parents everyday? I’m not a child. Year after year I stare at my fmaily arriving to the party with their man and I’m only girl alone with parents.

[Sugar100]

I spent already way too long being with parents my whole life. I’m a grown woman now I desire do mature adult things cook for my man daily , spend time with his family, do errands with my man not with my mom & dad all year like I’m 12

[Juxtapose]

You don't have to listen to their whins. Make a plan to move out, follow up on it and find yourself a guy.

[Sugar100]

But how is having a partner a whore? I’m not looking for sex I want happiness begin life with a partner

[Sugar100]

If I have babies at 30 then I’m a whore?

[Sugar100]

My entire family got married and babies at 21,23 ,25 I’m the youngest never had a boyfriend 😓 how is 30 pregnant a whore

[Juxtapose]

I already told you you are not a whore. Stop listening to morons.

[Dongie]

She may be jealous of you. Just because she is a parent doesn't exclude her from those feelings.

[Dongie]

Oh, you may need to let her go a couple of months from seeing you.

[Sugar100]

Jelaous of what as I have no job broke no boyfriend I’m alone with her daily?

[Dongie]

How old is she?

[Dongie]

You should get a job. A great source of income and you will meet boys

[Dongie]

Not to mention you will be gone many hours a day from her. I guarantee that her attitude towards you will change. Please go get a job waitresses. You will love it. Plus you may make a lot of coin.

[Dongie]

Waitresing is the ticket

[Bklynbadboy12]

That's not a bad thing for you to want but why are you listening to her when you already know how she is

[Sugar100]

It feels like my moms happy seeing me alone with no partner living with her forever

[Sugar100]

How is wanting a partner a whore? I’m sure if I have kids at 30 she’ll call me a whore

[Bklynbadboy12]

It's seems like she likes to torture you

[Sugar100]

We beat each other I told her she don’t let me live my life and be happy ! 😓 she want me stuck here with her forever ! And she say I’m
Not married!!! R u married!!! 😓😓😓😓

[Sugar100]

I even have blood on my elbow 😓

[Jerre]

Time for you to oppose your parents and move OUT of their house.

[Sugar100]

They don’t own a house they rent an apt and I can’t move out as they’ll say all the money I’m wasting on an apt cuz he money to pay her rent and live together in an apt and not her pay alone rent

[Sugar100]

Then they’ll say I’m bad child as I’m not living with her. If I had a boyfriend life with me or married then they wudnt say I’m bad child but god don’t make me even hav a boyfriend so that’s y I’m not married no guy wants marry me

[Anonymous]

Get far away from your parents

[Sugar100]

How I’m a whore for wanting a first boyfriend , a partner? Next year I’m
28

[Opinion Owner]

You are not

[Sugar100]

Everyone has kids at 21,23,25 , I’m almsot 30, how pregnant at 30 is a whore?

[Opinion Owner]

It is not, your parents are speaking nonsense

[Sugar100]

We beat each other I told her she don’t let me live my life and be happy ! she want me stuck here with her forever ! And she say I’m
Not married!!! R u married!!!

[Sugar100]

She knows I’ll never get married as no guy wants be my boyfriend 😓 I don’t want live alone hallow in an empty apt I want a man take care of me have baby live life together everyday

[Opinion Owner]

You need to get away from her

[Sugar100]

My fmaily all moved out until they got married but I’m 27 and not married as no guy wants be my boyfriend

[Sugar100]

I even have blood on my elbow it hurts 😓