I called my mom a bitch?

[Anonymous]

So for the past few days my mom has been telling at me a lot and it keeps getting on my nerves. My brother also constantly tells me, "mama Hates you."
He tells me this everytime he sees me around the house. I reply with, "I don't care." Cause I really don't.

So this particular day she came home very angrily and she was verbally abusing my brother, and my brother was trying to defend himself. I came out of my room to see what all the commotion was about. My sister was walking up the stairs and I aksed her, "what Happened?" She got mad and flipped her jacket and trud to hit me but ended up spilling the 7up. My mom came upstairs yelling and aksed me if I made the mess, I said no.. Then she told me to clean it up and I did.

She was coming up stairs after yelling about her life to my dad who was listening, and said to me "bring all the dirry dishes down stairs, and if I see even one dirty dish left I'll break it on your face." I said okay but I had a smirk going on for some reason. Then she came back into my room and told me to clean it up and started throwing all of my stuff on the floor.. etc perfumes, other belongings. Then I got kind of pissed but I still let it slide. So I got up collecting all the dirty dishes and she started yelling at me, at the top of my lungs, and hitting me on the arm with a box. I kind of lost it and said, "why are you hitting me, I didn't do anything!!!" And then we had a bigger argument. Then she called me a bitch and, then I smelled at the top of my lungs, "YOU STUPID BITCH!!!" Then she got even make Mad and hit me more, then I said "IF YOU HIT ME AGAIN ILL BREAK THIS PLATE ON YOUR FACE!!!" Then she started cursing me and told me how she wishes got curses me and hopes he never forgives me!! Then started crying and left.

My dad told me to apologize and I told him I will when I feel sorry about it, because in all honesty I don't think it's my fault.

But I feel guilty

Updates

+1 y

Yelled not smelled***
God not got**
Sorry for the typos

[Joshua2332]

The funny thing is if your mother made a GAG account and posted her side of the story, it would be completely different. Not saying you're lying, but there are always two sides to a story.

If your question is were you right I'm going to go ahead and say no. I was your age at one point in my life. I would go back and forth with my mother and now being 21, we rarely fight. It's just a part of growing up. Someone has to be the better person and if it's not going to be your mother, then it ought to be you. Fighting violence with violence never solves anything. Just try to calm the situation down and if it gets too out of hand, just walk away. All in all, she is still your mother and I don't think calling her what you did was respectful even though she said it to you as well.

[Maazin]

Ignore all the shitty opinions of people in here criticizing your mother. Just apologize to her and ask what the actual problem is. She might be depressed or going through difficulty. Doesn't matter if she calls you names any number of times.

[harakiri]

sounds like she deserved it.
my mom has a temper too lol. when she acts like a bitch, i tell her so.
don't feel guilty. you shouldn't have to just take it lying down.

[Asker]

R u sure

[harakiri]

she's your mother. she shouldn't be threatening to break plates on your face. that is ridiculous. my mom is the same way, but i still love her. regardless, i do call her out when she's being unnecessarily vindictive.

also... stop leaving dirty plates in your room. lol.

[Mesonfielde]

Yeah, your mother is a shitty person, I hope your genetics don't define you to be a such a piece of shit yourself.

But there is nothing here except that your mother doesn't know how to behave like a decent human being. Although this whole scene reeks of terrible conflict resolution skills.

[Asker]

Do u think I was right or worng?

[Mesonfielde]

Oh, it's you. You were probably wrong, then. Lol.

[Asker]

What the f man
Why r u so mean

[Mesonfielde]

I would be mean if I claimed that now I know where you managed to genetically inherit bitchy behavior from, lol. No one is right, and everyone is wrong. You guys should just stop yelling and birching at each other.

[Dєѕιвσу]

Heyy... you can argue with her and prove her wrong but don't call bit%ch at least to your mom?
I understand your pain though.

[Findesemana]

i don't think you had much right to call her this...

[Asker]

Explain

[meatballs21]

What's your question?

[Asker]

Do you think I was right or worng