Do you find it attractive when someone can eat a lot?

[HawkPerception]

Yes

No

[DishLady]

I’ve always heard guys say, “I like a girl who can eat,” however they tend to want the girl who looks physically “hot” and slender/fit, which is a contradiction. (I know, some morons will give the argument about fitness = workouts = muscle, but girls don’t burn fat the same way guys do.) I’ve also watched guys GET the girl who can eat on a first date… let’s say there’s a sticker price that comes with that wish…


One of my female friends is “a girl who can eat.” She’s got a cute face and curvy figure, but she’s a big gal, you know? She goes out on a first date it’s a 2-3 hour dinner that involves her custom-ordering some pricey, enormous dish with a special dressing or spice or something… (Let’s just say that the time it takes her to order on a first date is almost the same total time it takes some of us to HAVE and conclude our first date.) She does it to impress the guy and show him she knows what she likes, she’s picky, etc. (Some guys like this, some don’t. She doesn’t read the room, you know? She forgets a little that she’s there more to get to know the guy than to actually dig in and eat.) The food hits the table and if the guy is curious enough to reach and try a forkful of whatever she’s ordered? ‼️⚠️⛔️ Watch out bc he may lose that fork AND a couple of fingers….


Bottom line? Be careful what you wish for. Some people are crazy.

[HawkPerception]

Haha. This may sound strange, but I definitely prefer that I can eat more than my date/partner. And I don't eat a ton either. It makes me feel more masculine when I can eat more 😂

I also like girls that are health conscious and picky about what they eat. One of my exes literally did not eat veggies. Any time she came to a family thing and was offered salad, she refused it. My whole family didn't like that and looking back on it, neither did I. All that girl wanted was meat and cheeses.

[DishLady]

There’s something to the whole “not eating veggies” thing but I don't know what is is. Some of my friends do it — Atkins diet — and it seems to work for them, but it doesn’t work for me. I need my veggies.

The cheese thing is more to do with bone density, perhaps.

[luvstoned4him]

I always say I eat to live and not live to eat.

I am all for getting fed but gluttony won't be cute so they need to keep that in check

[HawkPerception]

Haha I agree 😂

My ideology is people should only eat when they're hungry. Not when they feel like it like what people do currently in America

[luvstoned4him]

@HawkPerception true. lol

[luvstoned4him]

@HawkPerception Thanks for mho

[DizzyDesii]

I know guys want a girl who will eat like this (and maintain her shape lmao) but i am not eating like this in front of a guy until like months into the relationship 😂 Im not doing this on the early dates. And i know guys be chowing DOWN but i find nothing hot about watching someone eat a lot lol. I used to look away because my exes got pretty embarassing in restaurants and because i’d barely eat, they’d happily finish both of our meals

[Dongie]

You are too sweet

[DizzyDesii]

@Dongie lol wym

[Dongie]

😇😘😅🫡

[TommyMountainFigure]

As someone who has never been bitten by the 'eat as much as I can' bug, no not really!

I can't think of anything worse than going out on a 1st date and the woman is still sitting there eating an hour after the restaurant closes! I exaggerate of course, but you know what I mean!

[OfMiceandMen]

Not necessarily a lot, but someone who will eat the first plate that I may have prepared for them is kind of nice. I don't expect them to go back for seconds.

[HawkPerception]

I agree. A standard amount of food for etiquette

[England4eva]

I hope someone finds me attractive when I'm greedy af, although I seriously doubt it

[Billlewis]

Oh my God, yes. A woman who likes to consume a gut busting load of fattening, high calorie food is a dream come true for me!

[Dongie]

A girl that keeps her weight just right scarfing down is delicious 😋

[StudyingAuthor]

Nope... cuz they eat like me.

[bannacookies]

No. That's just... gross.

[KittygosMeoWW]

Mmm no unless it’s my cooking

[the29thhuman]

I’ve never sexualized appetite

[HawkPerception]

It doesn't have to be sexualized for it to be attractive.

[DizzyDesii]

This made me think of all the guys fawning over Kate Upton eating that burger 😂

[avery58]

Nope

[Ms_Facesitter]

No, but impressive.

[StyngRay]

It looks like you have no control.