What’s actually deemed more of a weakness?

[Anonymous]

I know people may say that those able to be alone without the need to find a partner are maybe more secure but it can be admitted that people able to constantly put themselves out there to find love also deserve credit since that can also be tiring.

Being able to be single inevitably/mostly alone

Putting yourself out there/relationship hopping

[kylee2437]

Me and my boyfriend were just talking about this yesterday. Relationship hopping is weak in my opinion. It goes to show that you believe that you can’t possibly be the problem in relationships, and goes to show you have a hard time working out problems with present partners. Also shows you are too afraid to be alone which my boyfriend said “we are at an age where most people don’t want to be alone” like okay so you have to be willing to work through things with one person and not just give up when things aren’t going your way.

[genericname85]

i don't consider either of that a "weakness".