Do men only offer to be friends with benefits if they aren’t that physically attracted to you?

[Anonymous]

This guy offered a friends with benefits situation to me and I heard that men only offer a friends with benefits situation to you if they aren’t that attracted to you and are ashamed to be seen in public with you or if that dislike your personality.

Is this true?

[luvstoned4him]

Not necesary. he could just be attracted to you sexually and just wants you for that purpose only

[Asker]

So, in this case the guy just doesn’t like your personality?

[luvstoned4him]

@Asker , am not saying that. You could have the best of personalities and yet a guy is just focused on the physical. Not all men want a healthy loving relationship. Sometimes they just want to bust a nut. Sometimes you aren't the girl they want but you are the one who is available or who they think they have easy access to and so they just take what they can.

[Yellovv]

That's mean he want only your pussy or he need sex only..

[Asker]

But why, though? Does he just not like my personality?

[Yellovv]

If he offering you that what you are expecting?

[Asker]

I’m just trying to figure out why men offer me friends with benefits situations rather than relationships.

[Yellovv]

If he is fucking your pussy is that matter for him you thinking?

[Asker]

Never mind. You don’t seem to be understanding my point.

[Yellovv]

I answer just what I see, if he want relationship he should tell you that.

[Anonymous]

I don't know they just don't want to be bound up with a relationship or are already married or something.