If a guy puts you in the friends with benefits category, does it mean that you're (physically) attractive enough to sleep with but not enough to date?

[Anonymous]

[ohsheeT]

I went to a nasty break up and it took me forever to get her out of my house put her on an airplane and send her home to her mother but finally after that happened I had been through hell

And in one week period of time is probably about. 3 weeks to a month after I sent her off on the airplane but a friend of mine came over and then two of her friends came over not all the same time is all different days but we were talking and they wanted to know if I wanted to go out and I said hell no I hate girls LOL. And me being a smart-ass I said not unless you want to be friends with benefits and all three of those girls said yes

I wasn't ready for a relationship again at all but those three girls all very beautiful good looking girls very smart and girls that I would probably want to date but I just was not ready to date again so I mean guys can have all different reasons for not wanting to date you but wanting to have sex

I mean I just was not ready for it I was focusing on finding myself again because it took me like 4 months to get her out of my house and I just quit communicating with everybody so I had to find myself again anyway


And the only way I could do this was I had to have rules you can't say I love you I need you I want you because then it would just be over right then and there but it was one of the best times in my life because of the people that they were and the friendship and the bond that we had it was better in almost any relationship that I ever had

[jahaims]

It means he doesn't respect you enough to be his girlfriend

[Asker]

Why?

[Meisdipa]

Something like that.

Or Just his Insurance Policy 😂😂

[Asker]

“Insurance policy”?

[Meisdipa]

Backup option

[Anonymous]

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