Tinder icon on top of screenshot?

[Anonymous]

Friend of mine we were boys in high school and college, he sent me a prefantasy football line up as we were discussing our leagues. At the top of his screen shot there was an icon of the app Tinder. He just got married last year, and things look to be great. Beautiful wife he has as she is a school teacher and yoga teacher. He is firefighter but high rank and also a physical trainer. When I was single I had tinder so I know the icon when I see it. How do I go about this? Man my heart started racing when I seen that icon. He doesn't know that I noticed it

[Oliverlogan263]

Yo dude that's a crazy situation. On one hand, I wouldn't wanna accuse your boy of anything without being sure. But finding that Tinder icon on his screen is definitely sus. A few things I might consider:

- Act normal with him for now so he doesn't suspect you saw it. Maybe bring up Tinder casually sometime to see how he reacts.

- Do some lowkey investigating on social media - check if he's active on it, look for any other red flags with his relationship status etc.

- Give him the benefit of the doubt for now. Maybe it was old and forgot to delete, or his phone is messed up showing weird icons. But keep an eye out just in case.

- If you see more fishy stuff, you might have to have an honest brother-to-brother talk. Tell him you just want what's best for both him and his wife, but the Tinder thing raised concerns.

- Consider telling his wife if things really seem off, but only as an absolute last resort. No one wants to be "that guy" causing drama.

Tough call, bro. Just proceed carefully so you don't mess up his relationship unless you're 100% sure something's up. Hopefully it was just a weird tech fluke. But trust your gut too if red flags keep popping up.

[CuriousHubby]

Honestly he is cheating or they want a 3rd. Either way the marriage will end in a few years!

Tell her not to have kids!

[Anonymous]

Do nothing, play dumb