Hi there, I’m in need of some help badly ! Please, 2 years ago I met this beautiful mature lady, she was just my favourite type of woman ! At the time I was working in a salon and she was one of the most beautiful ladies in the clients, one day she was having her hair done, and we were talking and she said that could she have my number , I couldn’t believe what she said ! When I wanted her number , we met up a good amount of times and had a coffee date together, she was even texting me when we should meet up, I was loving life but then I texted her just saying that she is very nice and and attractive, and she said that she only wanted to have a chat and then she ghosted me, I am very gutted I don’t know why she has done this , her WhatsApp photo is absolutely beautiful she really looks so very beautiful, how can I get her to change her mind? Is texting her saying how beautiful she is a good or bad idea? Can I ask her why she asked for my number and then ghosted me? I really need some advice here please 🙏 I’m so depressed about it I look at her old messages and her photo most days how can I win her back? Please help me ! Any help and advice will be greatly appreciated thank you !
How can I get a woman who ghosted me to text me back? after she asked for my number ?
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You need to move on. She was the one who ghosted, meaning she wasn’t interested and it’s been year now. I don't know if you just haven’t had luck with women or your depression makes you feel like a woman is what you need, but she isn’t the one. Respect her decision.
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It’s easier said than done sometimes, I’m so confused why she has done this? Yes my depression is making me feel like I need a woman but it’s so gutting and not fair, why ask for my number and then ghost me?
It’s always easier said than done but after two years and not much time dealing with her in the first place, I’d say it’s time you actually commit to moving on. You ask why she’s done this… dude, could you truly tell me that you never had a change of heart? Liked a woman but ultimately lost feelings or interest? I don't know about you but that’s normal to me, to have a crush and outgrow it, or give a guy a chance but it wasn’t a good fit.
By that I mean, have you ever at any point in your past liked a woman, or had interest then didn’t anymore? Maybe in high school or college found a woman attractive and then outgrew the crush, or someone else caught your eye? That’s what I mean really, just having a change of heart. Even if you say you’ve never experienced this, you should at least grasp the idea that sometimes feelings can change. I understand it’s disappointing because she’s the kind of woman you want, but that doesn’t mean you’re the kind of man she wants. Maybe you should respect that, rather than trying to act in only your interest.
Oh I get you now , yeah I can’t remember back in my college days it’s been years since I was there , it’s really disappointing when she was the type of woman that I want , it’s been 2 years now I think it would be the best idea to find another woman
Hey, she won’t be the last or only woman who matches what you want. I think a lot of what makes you want her to give you another chance is fear that you’ll never find that again, but that’s defeatist mentality. You’ll find the right girl, even if it’s not at the timing you want. Who knows maybe it isn’t even the right time to date, you said you struggle with depression, maybe this is a good time for therapy and healing. That way you’re the best version of yourself when the next woman comes along.
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You need to move on. She was the one who ghosted, meaning she wasn’t interested and it’s been year now. I don't know if you just haven’t had luck with women or your depression makes you feel like a woman is what you need, but she isn’t the one. Respect her decision.
It’s easier said than done sometimes, I’m so confused why she has done this? Yes my depression is making me feel like I need a woman but it’s so gutting and not fair, why ask for my number and then ghost me?
It’s always easier said than done but after two years and not much time dealing with her in the first place, I’d say it’s time you actually commit to moving on. You ask why she’s done this… dude, could you truly tell me that you never had a change of heart? Liked a woman but ultimately lost feelings or interest? I don't know about you but that’s normal to me, to have a crush and outgrow it, or give a guy a chance but it wasn’t a good fit.
When it’s a woman who is just my favourite type then yes it really is easier said than done, what do you mean by I never had a change of heart?
By that I mean, have you ever at any point in your past liked a woman, or had interest then didn’t anymore? Maybe in high school or college found a woman attractive and then outgrew the crush, or someone else caught your eye? That’s what I mean really, just having a change of heart. Even if you say you’ve never experienced this, you should at least grasp the idea that sometimes feelings can change. I understand it’s disappointing because she’s the kind of woman you want, but that doesn’t mean you’re the kind of man she wants. Maybe you should respect that, rather than trying to act in only your interest.
Oh I get you now , yeah I can’t remember back in my college days it’s been years since I was there , it’s really disappointing when she was the type of woman that I want , it’s been 2 years now I think it would be the best idea to find another woman
Hey, she won’t be the last or only woman who matches what you want. I think a lot of what makes you want her to give you another chance is fear that you’ll never find that again, but that’s defeatist mentality. You’ll find the right girl, even if it’s not at the timing you want. Who knows maybe it isn’t even the right time to date, you said you struggle with depression, maybe this is a good time for therapy and healing. That way you’re the best version of yourself when the next woman comes along.
Smart women don’t usually go back to men they ghosted.
I am speaking from experience. 😊
So, the best thing for you to do is to move on, hun. 💜