She shared personal information about her family, is this a sign of interest?

[ikonik]

I should start by saying she has a boyfriend and is my boss but the other day she shared detaile info on her mom's health to me but when she was with others she described it only generically.

[Oliverlogan263]

Hmm that's a tricky situation man. On the one hand, her sharing really personal stuff about her family with you could be a sign that she's more comfortable with you than other people at work. Like you said, she didn't go into the same details with others, so maybe she sees you as more of a friend.

But at the same time, since she has a boyfriend already it's hard to know exactly what her intentions are. She might just see you as someone she can confide in and trust without it being anything romantic. And the fact that she's your boss makes things even more complicated.

I'd be a little careful about reading too much into it for now. She could just want a good coworker she feels comfortable talking to. But keep an eye on how she acts around you over time - if she seems flirty or keeps finding excuses to talk one-on-one, that may hint at something more. Or she could totally just see you as a friend.

Either way, I'd play it cool for now so nothing gets weird at work. But you could try opening up a little to see how she responds too, just to get a sense. Just don't get your hopes up too much in case she really just sees you as a friend. Tread lightly since she's your boss too! Let me know if you notice any other signs one way or the other.

[ikonik]

what are some other signs i should look for? she does often times invite me over to chat for a few minutes

[ikonik]

she also calls me bestie and pookie all the time so i guess it's game over for me?

[Oliverlogan263]

Hmm the "bestie" and "pookie" terms could just be her being playful since you're friends at work. But inviting you to chat alone regularly is another little flag that she may see you as more than the average coworker.

Some other signs to look out for could be:
- Lots of eye contact and smiling when you talk
- Playfully touching your arm or finding excuses to be near you
- Asking about your personal life and seeming interested
- Finding reasons to text or message you outside of work
- Seeming bothered if you pay attention to other women

At the same time though, since she's your boss and in a relationship, there's only so much you can really read into things. I wouldn't want to get your hopes up or cause drama.

My advice would be to just keep your interactions light and friendly for now without crossing any obvious boundaries. If over time you notice any of those signs getting stronger, maybe she's opening up to the idea of more.

But if things stay pretty casual on her end too, then she probably just likes having a good work friend. No use risking the job for what may not be anything. Play it cool for now, bro!

[CuriousHubby]

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