Was she trying to show interest?

[Anonymous]

So the other day me and my woman friend were at the plasma center to make a couple extra dollars and this girl who I've seen a few times there were behind us and I couldn't help but notice that she kept glancing at me, she might've just been looking at me but she kept looking at me..

It's just funny because I'm assuming she thought my friend was my girlfriend, and she's literally never paid me any mind prior to that. And on top of that her friend kept subtly showing her butt in front of me.. were they both doing this because I was with another woman? I'm single by the way

[ManOnFire]

She only started showing you attention once she thought your friend was your girlfriend. That's the proof. There's an absolutely good chance she was in some way interested. Plus she kept trying to show her ass in front you. You know what you're talking about and what your prior experience is, you're not just imagining it.

Chicks have a twisted thing in their heads where they find a guy more interesting or attractive if he's with another woman, yet they hate it if some guy is trying to come on to her while she's in a relationship. You don't want the attention of a girl like that.

[AngryCarl3]

Everything has a price in the USA, even your bodily fluids. In the UK it's illegal to sell your plasma, but you can donate it.

[Abbycado]

She kept looking at you because you were staring at her.

[Asker]

I literally wasn't. I was looking at my phone and every time I looked up she was looking at me.

[Abbycado]

If you weren’t looking at her, how do you know she was looking at you, lol?

@HollyK21

[HollyK21]

He either lacks self awareness or thinks he’s the slickest man on earth when it comes to stealing glances lol. Sir, if you keeping looking at this woman, and you allege that she’s already staring at you, then why is it so impossible to imagine that she’s already caught you glancing at her several times and is just as confused about it as you seen to be about vice versa? There’s just quite literally no possible way for you to have “caught” her several times without thinking that she saw the same thing, unless you’ve got an extra pair of eyes on the back of your head.

[HollyK21]

**seem to be

[Asker]

@HollyK21 she was literally right across from me.. I couldn't help but to see her.. it's just weird cos she's never looked at me before like she did until I was with another woman.. but you got everything figured out

[HollyK21]

How do I have everything figured out when my response was literally trying to figure it out lol. You want our thoughts on the situation but it’s like you’re too emotional about this to process them, I don't know.

In any case, it sounds like you’re overthinking. Knowing you were directly across from her and you’re just sitting there doing nothing, it would not be unusual to look up and acknowledge your presence here and there. The difference here is that you have a crush and despite acting like you’re preoccupied with your phone, you can’t help but to keep looking up because you’ve got it in your head that not only is she’s staring but that she and her friend are in some sort of attention-seeking cahoots, aka showing off her butt. You also have it in your head that she’s got some brand new way of glancing at you, yet you don’t even know her, what’s on her mind, how her day was or will be, like you don’t know anything. Then to top it off, you’re sitting with this friend, probably fairly chatty. Pair that with you repeatedly looking at this woman, she could easily have thought you two were talking about her.

This is just my perspective of what’s going on and it does not warrant any sort of rude response.

[Asker]

@HollyK21 okay

[Nikki1989]

You're being creepy. Of course she was looking at you.

[Asker]

I was being creepy for talking to my woman friend and kept seeing another woman looking at me? Gotcha

[In_Trance]

That's gnarly