Should I breakup?

[Anonymous]

A guy who was my friend earlier used to talk to me late at night but now as he is my boyfriend. He doesn't want to talk to me. What does it mean? Did he lose interest?

[Anonymous]

Go ahead. Then you will meet a man who wants to talk late at night w you till you two become official than he won’t talk to you like the first man. The reality of it is that a lot of us men do what we have to to get the girl we want when it’s not what we really are. Men don’t really like long walks on the beach, romance, earrings strawberries and wine while watching chick flicks lol I mean a handful may but we do this to have a better chance of being w her. Whether that’s just for sex or for an actual relationship.

[thearchjoker]

was this a one time thing like he came home from a hard day at work or has this been going on for a while?

[Asker]

He has been doing this recently

[thearchjoker]

but once or twice or every day?

[Asker]

Every day.

[thearchjoker]

looks like he's losing interest

[thearchjoker]

I recommend you have a talk with him asap, tell him how you feel and be as blunt as possible.

[rosemilk]

if someone doesn't want to talk to you, you need to find out why. especially since this is your boyfriend. i'd ask him asap

[Asker]

Should I force him? If he doesn't want?

[rosemilk]

you don't need to force him. if he still doesn't want to talk, you have your answer. he is trying to subtly hint that he's probably not interested anymore. bad on his part, he needs to maturely talk about that kind of stuff

[Asker]

I think he like someone else and just want me for his usee

[Wise4myage]

It sounds like he has lost interests, but why not ask him?

[Asker]

Wasn't he the one who likes me so how?

[Wise4myage]

He changed his mind for some reason?