I really liked a guy but women talk about him he's sleeping with all women?

[Anonymous]

I went to Bumble date with a man. He kissed me end of date. It felt romantic connection I really liked him.

Found out other girls he used dated with, talk about he's sleeping with all women at the same time.

Should I ignore, give it a chance or? What should I do?

[DishLady]

So don't see that guy again if you don't like that he slept with other people.

OBVIOUSLY a guy on an app will have been with a bunch of girls. ESPECIALLY on bumble where desperate women swipe to get a guy... The guy knows a woman is desperate and interested he's going to try to get into her pants... and he did with these other women.

With you he possibly held back for one of three reasons: (1) you're a little different and he's going to take things slow out of respect; (2) he doesn't like you enough to go to the next level; (3) he has an STD from these other women and is actually kind enough not to pass it along.

When you know a guy has slept around make sure you get him tested before you do anything sexual with him.

[Asker]

I think he genuinely likes me. He asked too much questions about me, my family. He wiped my mouth with napkin during dinner (he seemed caring) end of date passionately kissed me.

He insistently asked for 2nd date, I lied&gave excuse.

He said:"Are you free Saturday" I said I'll be out of town.
Him: "Will you stay overnight there" I said yes
Him: "When you leave" I said "Friday..."

He said "Let's have dinner on Thursday then"...

[DishLady]

So then you have your answer.

[Asker]

What's the answer? What do you suggest?

[Asker]

What's your suggestion? Based on I told...

[Asker]

Hello?

[Surferboi_02]

Well first I think you should get your head clear and think if this guy is right for you and ask him yourself if that stuff is true or you'll just end up ruining ing something before it starts.

[Asker]

He denies, obviously. Why I'll ruining it? He has a bad reputation about being player.

[Surferboi_02]

Oh then he'll naw don't kiss he don't deserve you

[Asker]

He'll naw? What you mean?

[thearchjoker]

high risk, could end well could end bad so advance with caution

[Asker]

thank you🙏🏻

[Nirmroth]

Enjoy with caution I would say. Did you talk about relationship goals?

[Asker]

I didn't ask, he tried to bring it up... He said he wants 3 kids

[Nirmroth]

And why didn't you talk about what you seek atm? But if you want something serious him wanting to have kids doesn't sound bad (if you want some aswell at some point that is ofc)

[Asker]

Yeah but it looks like he's a manwhore 😂 I wouldn't want have a child with a manwhore or cheater

[Nirmroth]

Oh if you know that then why this question and why do you entertain him in the firstplace if dating someone with a high body count was a no go for you? Expect ofc if you want to add yourself to the number but then I wonder bec you sounded serious about him.

[Asker]

He sounds serious too. I'm serious also

I also slept around in the past. I don't know if he'd be any different if he'd be in relationship.

[Nirmroth]

Well then ask him directly or guide the convo subtle to this direction what his intentions are going forward with this. Then act upon the info you get yourself.

For me personally a no go would be if the person cheated in the past otherwise idc care if they were sleeping around a lot or not. Some take longer than others to reach the "settle down" phase of life.

[Asker]

I agree. I casually slept around but didn't cheat anyone. That's character flaw.

Girls exactly said "He's dating several women at once and he's sleeping all of them"

If he hadn't exclusivity talk with any of them? Then It's not cheating. Girls might be just butthurt because he was dating someone else?

[Nirmroth]

Yes if it wasn't exclusive then he's in a green light in my opinion. As are girls who do the same just to cover that flank by the way.

Just keep in mind, he might do the same with you as long as you're just dating and not having had the exclusive talk yet. So you dont get butthurt aswell going in with wrong expectations.

[Asker]

I'm still not sure... Should I give it a chance or not? Not sure if I can trust him

[Nirmroth]

That why I said proceed with care. You just been on one date so far.

Its not like he's a past murderer etc I think putting some trust in him isn't wrong. Would always give them a chance. If they betray it, run and dont look back

[jeremy_09]

When I go on a first date I'm usually having sex with other women. If she becomes a girlfriend I stop having sex with anyone but her.

[Asker]

How can I know he will loyal to me? He's known as player

[Anonymous]

Well that's a silly question. Moreover I don't know why you're asking. You already KNOW what you're going to do.😆

[Asker]

What am I going to do?

[NYlatefun]

It’s likely that he’s sleeping around but not certain. Why don’t you give it time?

[Asker]

A Manwhore? How can I know he'll loyal to me?

[NYlatefun]

Well, relationships are about trust, if you don’t trust him, don’t be with him.

[Asker]

Well I want to. I don't feel this chemistry often.

His university friend said he's a player too.

[NYlatefun]

That sounds like something you don’t want

[Asker]

I have feelings for him but I can't ignore these and being hurt in the end

[NYlatefun]

I hear you, if you want to pm send me a message

[Anonymous]

You are just like all the other women he has had sex with.

[Asker]

I didn't have sex with him

[Opinion Owner]

I didn't say you did. But you're considering it even though you know he's a man slut, and that's what makes you like the other women.

[Asker]

He's a manslut, He didn't do anything wrong -to me- Please read the comment I wrote below

[Opinion Owner]

I didn't say he did anything wrong, just that he sleeps with a lot of women, and he's good at making women feel special, even though they are not and he only wants to have sex with them.

[Asker]

I agreed. I shouldn't give it a chance then

[ChicoFromThe305]

Rumors aren't always just bologny

[Asker]

I agree. I can't trust him