So this girl and I had been talking for 5 months on Instagram. She even asked me to hang out. She just removed me from followers on her main account?

[Anonymous]

She asked to hang out. She has never seen me. We were suppost to meet at a hibachi place. She asked to meet by the door. Later she made what I believe to be an excuse about dating anxiety. Saying she panicked and probably needs to work on herself before dating. Told her we could work on it if she wanted 2. Now she has unfollowed and removed me on her second account. Should I ask why or just let it be. I am a heaver guy 250 but I'm 6'2.

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Its just the main account I'm still on the secondary my bad on wording.

[Nirmroth]

Move on, talking for 5 months for a first date is insane.

[Nirmroth]

doesn't matter if its her dating anxiety or if that was just an excuse. That girl isn't interested and even removed you take the hint finally

[Asker]

Kinda was hoping for the personality thing to win over the looks thing. wasn't the first time a date was set just the first one she could make. I just find it weird to unfollow and not block. Hence my question.

[Nirmroth]

I wouldn't be so hung over the looks thing. You texted over Instagram right? She likely saw your pictures or if you dont have any you surely must have exchanged some at some point.

Ye its weird, I am suprised you have the strenght to deal with such weird behaviour.

Remember while the man usually makes the first step, the chase should be mutual. she's taking a step back dont follow up by taking a step forward but stand your ground and carry on

[Asker]

No she never asked me to send any pictures and I dont have any up of me. I plan to just get back in the gym.

[Nirmroth]

Then you put up yourself for failure letting her build up a fantasy castle thats near impossible to meet.

Well for next time you're smarter. looks>personality always for the first time seeing each other. Make sure to exchange pics if you decide to text a girl on insta again.

Ye hitting the gym is nice remember to stay consistent its a very slow process that can take years. Set yourself small and realistic goals like loosing 5 lbs and continue from there

[DishLady]

So leave her alone...

[Anonymous]

[Asker]

Do u think she just dint like what she saw?

[Anonymous]

Ask her