1 yMajor Turn Offs:
If she's a bitch, A hoe, is Woke, is a Ugly woman as in both on the inside (personality) and outside (appearance), Is overly Materialistic, A Gold digger, Is too Old (As in 35+ is a complete no go), A feminist, Hates hugs and cuddling, Hates Men, Hates to be blunt, Refuses to say what she wan'ts when she knows what she wants, Hates sex, Starts fights for no reason, is Narcissistic, is Stupid, is a Bimbo, has gone through plastic surgery, Has a victim mindset, Having no loyalty, Having no respect for others, is Toxic, Makes a Drama out of every situation, is Unappreciative, is Rude, Is a nagger, Has unrealistic expectations, Thinks she needs to do nothing in a relationship as she inertly brings value by being a woman and doing nothing else. Is Shallow, Overdoes makeup, Refuses to take a compliment, Tries to take a negative spin on anything that happens, is unable to say thankyou, Has kids, Is fat, Is unhealthy, has completely incompatible fetishes/kinks, Is in a relationship, Thinks others can telepathically understand her. Is bitter and spiteful, Is creepy or gives creepy vibes, Has some serious mental issues such as being suicidal or a psychopaths/sociopath.
Turn Ons:
Is loving, Is healthy, Is tall yet shorter than me. is Nice, is Kind, is Respectful, Appreciates it when you do something for her, Takes compliments and doesn't argue that she isn't beautiful or some stupid shit like that, Is beautiful inside and out, Is intelligent, Enjoys at talking or at least listening. Loves to cuddle, Understands men aren't telepaths, Knows to express her feelings wants and needs as well as when to be blunt. Can hold a debate, Has big breasts, Enjoys sex, has compatible kinks/fetishes, Doesn't nag, understands that both parties have to work together for a Relationship to work, has a low Body-count, has similar Hobbies to me, is Frugal, is Fun to be around, Is interesting, is Resourceful.
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m 1 yHer being toxic, extreme beliefs, such as politics, religion, not understanding respect, trust, being homophobic and some other things.
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1 yWhen a woman is too skittish to do anything. Scared to do this or that and then acts really shy. You have one life. If you’re too scared to try anything or do anything then what’s the point in living?
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22.1K opinions shared on Dating topic. Not a guy, but if she hated other women. 🙄
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1 yToo judgmental I mean if it’s reasonable that’s fine but especially when someone complains about others but nobody can say anything about them.
Bitchy for no reason. If she’s bitchy for no reason. Takes things out on others that’s not their fault and makes excuses for it. Someone who dresses promiscuously we all know why someone would dress like that. It’s not wearing a bikini to the pool or a sports bra to work out. But clothing thats obviously uncomfortable. It’s either to get something or for attention.
Someone who uses male validation to boost her own ego. The list goes on really. Someone whose pretending to be someone they’re not.
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1 yFeminist, "woke", entitled, materialistic, excessive makeup, doesn't like camping or outdoors, afraid to rough it a little, wants "princess" treatment, etc.
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1 yA poor personality, in particular one that is pushy, can never be wrong, and tries to force others to believe what she believes.
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u 1 yThe fact that I am married would put me off with every girl except one.
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1 yOne girl I went out with was constantly sarcastic, insisted on texting every night after work, started complaining about things I was doing (putting me down). A combination of those things actually made me more and more frustrated to the point I realized I can't stand going out anymore.. just want a relaxing evening by myself
Other things - too clingy, always asking what I am doing when i am not with her, whiny, but the most common one is a girl not being honest when I ask why I am being rejected. very annoying to hear stupid, totally ridiculous excuses
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1 yNot sexually active, not a cuddly cutie, not supportive, and too narrow minded / bigoted, forces beliefs onto others, always starts fights, naive, acts like a know it all, and narcissistic, etc.
Turn Ons: Seductive, horny, compassionate, empathetic, kind, soft, sweet like candy, is supportive, brings out my best qualities, and more.
Notice how I didn’t mention differing political beliefs / religion / race / if she makes more money than me or whatever. Don’t really care about that as long as her heart & soul is in the right place.
00 Reply 2.2K opinions shared on Dating topic. Many things. If she is not genuinely nice and genuinely cooperative I am out. I see these as umbrella qualities that are verifiable easily.
It is important to me that she be slender since that also indicates self disciple and not self-indulgent.
A liberal attitude would see me out the door because she is fucked-in-the-head if she thinks there are 101 genders.
Don't care what she does or her education level but i do want her to be interested in the world around her. If not the later than probably won't be around for long.
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Anonymous(30-35)1 yWoke / feminist views, entitlement, victim mindset.
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Asker1 yyeah no not good
1 yVictim mentality, too independent, chain cigarettes smoker, don’t know how to listen to comprehend but listens to respond, not knowing how to communicate like an adult on how she’s feeling, and love chaos/drama in their life. Those are mines that I can think of right now. The drama/chaos and doesn’t know how to communicate how she feel but instead she acts like a kid or high schooler are at the top of my list.
50 Reply2.3K opinions shared on Dating topic. Masculine in action or appearance. Disrespectful, rude, self-centered, inability. Being an attention whore (in actions or dress). That's when you are desperate for attention and have to go overboard all the time or beg people to look at you. Real beauty isn't desperate.
It's hilarious how some women think straight men want masculinity in a woman.
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1 yher attitude and lack of respect. Her feeling of entitlement where none is deserved, her false self image of being a ten when clearly she's not. Her seeking financial benefit's over a true connection, she just looking to use you for her pleasure and doesn't care about you other than your wallet.
00 Reply6K opinions shared on Dating topic. Feminist, woke usually because in my experience women who follow those sorts of things tend to be man haters and rather toxic and I don’t need or want that in my life.
Bitchy, entitled attitude or victim mindset are also ones I’d rather do without.
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Anonymous(30-35)1 y"Woke / feminist views, entitlement, victim mindset."
I copied and pasted ^ what someone else posted because it was perfect. Women like this are a dime a dozen today, and they are awful human beings.
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I mean that is pretty perfect
1 yIf her thing, her personality revolved around herself. Saying, "I'm so beautiful, I'm the best, no one is better than me" that kinda shit. And actually meaning it. Yes, I understand that you should bring yourself up. Make yourself feel better. But never to feel you are better than anyone else.
I don't want a girl who's all about herself. I want someone who's kind and caring for others.00 Reply- 1.1K opinions shared on Dating topic.
1 yHere's a list:
- Fat
- Single mother
- Older than I am
- Tattoos
- Piercings
- Danger hair
- Woke/feminist
- Has thirst trap pictures on social media
- Any history of sex work, including sugaring or OF
- Acts masculine
- Still talks to exes
- Has male "friends"
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1 ySmoking, always says "I want...", lack of self-confidence, to scared to try new things, tattoos, piercings (except for ears and Princess Christina), lack of personal hygine, not shaving, bad attitude, mistreating service staff. Those are some of them, and I would agree with other commenters.
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1 yPoor hygiene, being unfaithful and promiscuity.
40 Reply Bad attitude is number 1. No matter how perfect she looks and seems, if she had a bitchy attitude, she got put on the "no LTR" list.
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1 yWitchcraft, feminism, leftist, progressive, tattoo's, exotic piercings, heresy, competitiveness, promiscuity, homosexuality, hostility toward God, hostility toward men.
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1 yCatty behavior. An awful friend group (lots of women have impressively shitty groups of friends). If I see her an angry or aggressive person
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1 yThey may not say it but for most of them (especially white guys) it’s a girl being non-white and not East Asian. They seldom respect other women.
00 ReplyCussing, not being able to see a story from more than one perspective.
00 ReplyBitchy, woke, feminist, gaslighting, materialistic, high body count, lack of respect, uneducated
00 Reply2.9K opinions shared on Dating topic. Shady behavior, hard drugs, poor life decisions, having a kid with a guy who didn't marry her (poor life decisions)
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1 yAnswering my FaceTime while she’s on the toilet, she invalidates my life experiences, her hands are too sweaty, she doesn’t work out regularly, she has bad breath… to name a few.
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1 yEntitled, very pushy for sex, looks down upon me not having a college degree, looking down on me having a blue collar job.
10 Reply567 opinions shared on Dating topic. That she smokes, her personality, to name but two.
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1 yDrama. Afraid to get dirty. Unappreciative. Selfishness. Rudeness. Materialistic. Sour mood. Screamer.
00 Reply321 opinions shared on Dating topic. If she gives pick me vibes and has many guy friends and stuff.. yuck!.
00 ReplyIf she's only been a female for a few years that could do it.
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1 yActing like she is better than everyone else and just being mean
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1 yBeing full of herself. Her sh*t stinks just like everybody else's.
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1 yToxic, abusive, and dehumanizing personality traits.
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I don't like revealing dresses
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Anonymous(30-35)1 yLying, leading you on, having to Chase. Listen if I like you I’m not chasing you while you chase others.
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Anonymous(30-35)1 ySome examples
If she is fat
If she has small tits
if she supports feminism
If she is SJW
00 ReplyNagging. Men want peace
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1 yIf I don't view her as a trusted friend
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1 ynot interested
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Anonymous(36-45)1 yA sprinkle sprinkle gal to us guys means she is a gold digger.
00 ReplyA lot of things.
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1 yHer husband walking in...
10 Reply 344 opinions shared on Dating topic. Hygiene or if she smells bad
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1 yBeing under 21 pretty much.
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Tons of other things though, she has to be over six foot 7 and have a ktm 2 stroke dirt bike and and shoot a 338 lupua like a pro
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1 yHer husband will put me off her, I guess.
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1 yDid something happen?
00 Reply3K opinions shared on Dating topic. Being obsessed with money.
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1 yShallowness, rudeness.
20 Reply If she laughed at my size
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1 yHeavily political
10 Reply Arrogant and annoying women
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1 yIf she didn’t accept Jesus as her savior
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1 ySmoking and acting snobbish and rude.
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10 Reply19.3K opinions shared on Dating topic. Asking for sex being pushy
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Anonymous(45 Plus)1 yDisagreeable, arrogant and selfish
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1 yHolier than thou attitude!
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1 yObesity, lack of hygiene, dullness.
00 Reply 1.2K opinions shared on Dating topic. Is she’s closed minded
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1 yImmaturity and a horrible attitude.
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