Girls, What will it take for you to date a short guy?

[Anonymous]

He has perfect skin, handsome face, ripped physique, high income, smart and kind personality, but is only 5'5'' tall! Is there hope for him? If so, how much of a demerit is his height? He prefers slim girls and mostly values kindness.

There is plenty of hope—he'll be fine

Below average overall, but there is still hope for finding what he wants

Difficult position—he should lower his standards or change his preference

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Any additional opinions are welcome

[SueShe]

I don't date, never have and don't plan to date but if I was forced to date, then the altitude above ground would be the last thing that would be important to me because height says strictly nothing about a person's intellect, character and personality. You can be 6ft tall and be a total brat, a toxic person and a player. That is a total turn off.

The only 3 assets that matter in my eyes are the ones I named above. In your case, the perfect skin, handsome face, ripped physique and high income are not relevant. Actually, I personally see the ripped physique as a negative point because to me, that means that he places too much importance on the looks, which are totally unimportant to me.

I am 5' 6 myself and having a partner that is smaller does not matter at all.

[itsannalee]

Personally i never dated man under 6ft, i’m 5’4”.
Because my dad is 5’4 and my mom is 5’8 , but all their kids are around 5’4. So I don’t date short guy, because i’m short.


But everyone has their own choice, if you have standard, just keep going. If i’m a bit fat maybe i’m just not your type.


Never lower your standard because of people, you know exactly what you are doing. If you like slim girl, just keep your standard.

[Nikki1989]

At least he has a smart and kind personality. The rest is trivial nonsense.

[SweetJoyGirl]

Not going to happen.

I am 5’3…