What does it mean if a lot of guys respect you but they still won’t date you?

[Anonymous]

I’ve been told that I’m attractive, I would make a good mom one day, all these good qualities on paper, I’m kind, and I’m 25 now so I’m like okay, well I’m getting close to the age when guys want to settle down and it’s still nothing. I’m getting so confused. What makes a girl seem perfect on paper but still will make you say NO?

[Anonymous]

When a woman has this trouble it generally boils down to one of two things.

1. She's simply not putting forth enough effort/putting forth the effort with the wrong men. That leads to point #2

2. She punching above her weight. I mean, I think Scareltt Johansson is attractive. So does 95% of the world. In what world would I EVER have a chance of landing Scarlett Johansson.😆 which is why it would be foolish to waste energy even trying. Understand what I'm saying? Knowing your marketability an where you fit in on the food chain in key.

Now, all you need to determine is which number you fall into one or two. Good luck!👍

[thearchjoker]

You're not giving enough info for us to be able to give you a good answer in respect to you

[thearchjoker]

I could give you generalised info but it won't necessarily help you in your own specific circumstances

[Asker]

I don’t know what other info could help though, I’ve been thinking and I think maybe it’s because I’m boring? Could that be it too?

[thearchjoker]

Personality traits, general appearance (no need to get spesific), behaviors and attitudes. Beliefs. These are all factors.

[Asker]

I act like Aubrey Plaza, I get told that a lot lol

[thearchjoker]

I have no idea who that is

[DrPepper12]

Ask the girlfriends, not us guys. Demand brutal honesty. Reflect on what they say. Thank them.

[Asker]

I have no friends

[Asker]

They always just say the guys I talk to are losers

[jahaims]

They don't actually think you are perfect on paper.

[scott04sa22]

Maybe your out of their leagues