Is it possible for a man to love two different women at the same time?

[Flower541]

[ohsheeT]

I think it's very possible.
. The thing is is when you find yourself and you know who you are and you don't judge or create drama it's very easily to fall in love with somebody especially if you love yourself... Because it's different there's no excitement there's new ideas there's different journeys.
There's different challenges.
I think it would be very easy thing to do.

But at the same time. . Time is very limited and trying to give two people love at the same time to be the best you can be would be very difficult

When I was younger I always fantasized about having a threesome and how beautiful and great it would be

And one day it happened and it wasn't as good as I thought it was our fantasized of because in a moment of time when you're with somebody and you could feel that energy and you're going to take them to the place that they haven't been or you're just in that moment and then the other one pulls you off and you're saying wait a minute I'm in the middle of something here LOL but I mean it was all good but I learned in that moment that I'm a one woman at a time kinda guy. . And then when you add love to it I don't know if I would want to love two people at the same time

[Angelo75]

Oh this dilemma.

Yes it is quite possible, but at the same time it's a weird paradox.

As a guy you end up having the heart of 2 women in your hands. Now comes the hard part. If you're a good person, you will have to choose one and break the others heart.
But when (sooner or later) they find out about each other, both their hearts will be broken. Making you a jerk!
The longer you let time pass on without telling them the truth, the more painful it becomes when the truth catches up. (and it always does!!!

To top it up: You are constantly telling yourself that you're a bad person for lying to two good women (cuz if they weren't good, you wouldn't love em).
And when you try to soothen that guilty feeling, you start realizing that by telling yourself that "you're ok" or "you're not that bad"... exactly that will make you realize you're a cheater or player. And you start looking down on yourself.

All in all... "yes" it is possible.
"No" it is not worth the headache.

[jennifer_bloom]

I'm not a man but I do not believe a man can have more than one favourite unless it's lust and not love. If men could love more than one woman at the same time, every average looking and average earning woman would get rejected when a richer and prettier girl came along. Nobody would marry, everybody would just play musical chairs.

[itsannalee]

No.
If you mean family yes.
But if someone in romantic terms, nah.
People who think anyone it’s possible to love 2 different women in the same time is just people who llve their own self. If someone tell he loves u but also loves another woman, he doesn’t even love you that woman. He just love his ownself.

[Summeroflove]

I mean there was polyamory at one point. It’s possible but as the Bible says that most of the time it ends in hating one and loving the other. It’s kinda way women are more jealous of one another genetic memory they had to fight for a man’s love back then who they married. But men also have things passed down in the flesh. So I’m not just woman bashing and not all women are the same.

Off that rant, I think I the beginning stages before a committed relationship is established someone may like more then one person but as time goes on you narrow that down to someone you feel something witn more exclusively if they also feel the same.

[V_Injector]

I love more that two women multiple times a day. Is it possible? I'm living proof.

I have sex with them too!

[Berethor]

That's what polyamory is about, if it's on the same level that would be other question.

https://www.idiva.com/relationships-love/relationships/this-couple-is-a-lesson-in-successful-polyamory-relationship/18004892

[D_Bone_Steak]

I love Palmala Handerson and Leftina Aguilera at the same time all the time in the shower... or outside of the shower, but then I have to wear a baby sock on my tube steak to soak up the leftovers.

[RavVid]

Yeah it is possible but not very practical. In a culture where I could have 4 wives I could love two wives very easily. In a culture of one wife per man I can't because I'll be sneaking around with one and lying to the other.

[SugarSugarplum]

Depends what you mean by the word "love".
Any man who loves me needs to be exclusive to me, or that's not love. Not in my book.

[Daniela1982]

If a woman can, so can a man.

https://www.youtube.com/embed/TzGbvTl4mpg

Guys, sing it for her. ☺

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

Yes, reports say it is possible, regardless of gender: Polylove or Polyamory

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

I think it's possible, but his love for one woman can be stronger than the other and one of the women are going to get left out.

[HelpfulWoman]

polyamory is a thing
but if its cheating, then no

[Nikki1989]

Of course. A person can love many people.

[magiusX26]

your basically asking if a person (gender does not matter here) can feel an emotion about more than one thing at a time. if you need to ask such, kidergarten is waiting on you to come redo it.

[WhitneySnow]

Maybe. I’m not sure. I would need more context.

[Static_In_The_Attic]

Anything is possible & yes a man can love two different women at the same time.

[CheeseMonster]

I have a sister and a mother. Can you be more specific?

[Nifrayu]

Of course. It might not be possible for everyone. But some people are definitely capable of being in love with more than one person at the same time.

[TonyMetal___86]

I think that he can love not just two but hundreds haha 😂😂

It's all about his decision, will he choose to only love one or not? That's the ultimate question!

[vj0090]

True love... no.

Casual love.. offcourse yes

[MyBrainsInsaneReign]

I guess it's possible.

But that doesn't mean you have to put up with it.

If your boyfriend wants to be in a "thrupple," feel free to tell him no, even if he really really loves woman #2.

[RHK36]

No. And not poly either since people are liars. You can delude yourself into thinking that's possible. Love won't be equal because it's not real love.

[Tim2nice]

Of course it is. Anyone is capable of loving more than person at a time

[thearchjoker]

is it possible yes but is a good idea is more questionable,

[Oncewildtwiceburned]

Yes. But his heart is going to be moved more for one of them than the ither.

[exitseven]

I am sure a lot of guys think they can but they are just fooling themselves/

[jasco]

Well that's what poly relationships are about. In my opinion, some people can but I think most can't.

[Dongie]

Why couldn't he?

Is it a law of physics, nah.
I feel like I just might could love eleven. ❤️

[Kelly6]

@Flower541 yes men or women can love more then one person.

[jahaims]

Be in love with no. Love as in a friend or family sure.

[Anonymous]

Yes absolutely (and more than two). The problem is when jelosy kicks in.

[Crazzyyworld]

So what? Enjoy your life no matter no wasting time with envy or jealousy

[Twalli]

I love multiple women. I'm in love with only one though.

[Anonymous]

I do not see why not - Women often claim that they can and do.

[Kingofkings1992]

Love? Yes. Be in love? Yes, still possible but less likely

[utum34]

Maybe it's possible, it happened to me in the past. It was a very desperate time.

[ZS007]

isn't this polyamory?

[paledreams]

Possible and not advised lol 😉

[loveslongnails]

Absolutely. Why not?

[AIexandra]

If it's a male, possible

[LiamJHayden]

One, two, one hundred, yes.

[Alexandria84]

If all three are ok with it.

[RedInnocent69]

Yeah, it sucks, but it happens.

[TurboAnon]

It wouldn't be 'love'. I only believe in monogamy.

[mosheg388]

i think yes...

[BetaBucks]

For sure

[_Senorita_]

Umm I don't know

[ChicoFromThe305]

Not equally

[DrPepper12]

Of course!!!

[scott04sa22]

Yes, double life

[noohair]

Yes it is.

[Anonymous]

Nope.