It's better to be the flaky, crazy girl than to be the stable loving girl?

Tell me it's not.
I used to be super loving, present, and stable and it got either taken for granted or taken advantage of.

Now I will just stop dealing with people at the drop of a hat and that makes them keep coming back. I don't message unless I feel like it at this point and I never message first.
It's better to be the flaky, crazy girl than to be the stable loving girl?
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