Has the gym replaced the bar as the easiest place to meet women?

[Vegasrunner]

[ManInChains]

Clearly not. If you haven’t noticed, the gym is the one place women accuse men of staring when they purposefully go to the gym in barely any clothing and expect men not to drool over them or strike up a conversation. I know of at least 2 women who have been kicked out of gyms for accusing men of such things.

[ProbablyClueless]

Was the bar ever a particularly easy place to meet women? Why the hell would anyone ever go to a bar to meet women for anything more than a hook up?

[Vegasrunner]

@ProbablyClueless The bar is one of the easiest places to meet women yes. However lately I've been meeting women at the gym w/ almost no effort.

[ManInChains]

The only reason the bar was considered a place to meet women was because women would get free drinks out of it

[ProbablyClueless]

I don't know, I've never struggled meeting women much of anywhere. Bars are not a place I would want to meet women. The bar for entry at a bar isn't high enough for my preferences lol

[Vegasrunner]

@ProbablyClueless How many women have you been with?

[Vegasrunner]

@ManInChains Why would you want to be out at a bar around a bunch of sober women?

[ManInChains]

Because I’m not into drunk women. I’m not into drinking either. @Vegasrunner, I don’t do bars

[ProbablyClueless]

I haven't been with many, but it's also not a numbers game for me.

I don't want to sleep with a lot of women.

[Vegasrunner]

@ManInChains OK so how many women have you been with?

[Vegasrunner]

@ProbablyClueless You don't struggle to meet women but you've only been w/ a few? Perhaps it should be a numbers game for you. It's unfortunate to hear about your condition, and I must admit I'm not that knowledge about the Trans community, but I do know through sports that a percentage of men are looking to transition into women, because it's easier, so I'm sensitive to your struggle.

[ManInChains]

@Vegasrunner, 4. And all but 1 cheated on me. Haven’t been with a woman in almost 10 years now

[ProbablyClueless]

@Vegasrunner I'm really not sure why you feel the need to talk shit, but best of luck with your babe hunt.

[Vegasrunner]

@ManInChains I mean at what point do you start to examine your mindset? You haven't had any success w/ women yet you feel the need to provide an opinion on this subject matter? Where did you meet these women that cheated?

[Vegasrunner]

@ProbablyClueless Simply pointing out the incongruency in your statement

[ManInChains]

Where do you think? And I'm not going to accept the "ask if your relationships are your fault" talking point. Fuck of with that @Vegasrunner

[ManInChains]

All*

[Vegasrunner]

@ManInChains How would I know where you met the 4 women you've been with?

[ProbablyClueless]

I don't think that's an incongruence. It's just reflective of a different approach to women. I'm not interested in the kinds of women I've generally met at bars

[Vegasrunner]

@ProbablyClueless Incongruency literally means "out of place or not in agreement" You make the claim that you "don't struggle" to meet women, yet you respond by saying you haven't been w/ "a lot" of women Furthermore you who self proclaims inexprience feels qualified to provide an opinion on where men should meet women? Actually you're simply validating that bars are the best place to meet women because you're both inexprienced with women and don't go to bars. So are you saying that if a man wants to meet more women he should go to the bar?

[ProbablyClueless]

I understand what you're saying, I'm just disagreeing with your characterization of that situation as an incogruence. I don't think you're being accurate because I don't think anything that I'm saying is inconsistent.

[Vegasrunner]

@ProbablyClueless Feel free to disagree w/ what you like. At one time people disagreed that the earth was round or that we landed on the moon. However by definition you're being incongruent, by making the claim you don't struggle but saying you've had little success is by definition incongruent, how can one justify inexprience as not struggling when it comes to a specific subject matter?

[ProbablyClueless]

You're the one who said I had little success. I never said that. That came from you. I said that I was successful with women, and I am; I have a great track record of getting with the women I set out to get with.

[Vegasrunner]

@ProbablyClueless You literally said "I haven't been w/ many" Why would that be considered success?

[ProbablyClueless]

Because I also haven't tried to be with many. Most of the women I've tried to be with, I've been able to get with.

[Vegasrunner]

@ProbablyClueless That doesn't change the fact that you have limited exprience, which means you wouldn't be the best person to weigh in on this subject. How could you provide logical advise on where men should meet women, if you admittedly haven't met many? Also the fact that you've been able to get w/ "most" needs way more context. If you only tried to get w/ one woman and got one woman, then you would be considered an objective failure w/ women as a man. The fact that you don't have a tangible number tells me that you inherently understand that you lack experience w/ women and are ashamed to admit it.

[ProbablyClueless]

@Vegasrunner That's why I said we simply have different approaches to women. If you've found that searching for romantic prospects in bars works well for you, then by all means; keep doing it. It's just not a lifestyle approach that appeals to me.

[Vegasrunner]

@ProbablyClueless OK, but you voluntarily choose to answer on a post that had nothing to do with that. In fact the post ask if the gym was replacing the bar as the new best place to find women. If you haven't had that many women to begin w/ what qualifies you to give an opinion?

[ProbablyClueless]

@Vegasrunner What qualifies me is that the gym is a place I would be much more likely to go to meet women than a bar. I was disputing your assertion that the bar would have been the best place to meet women

[Vegasrunner]

@ProbablyClueless? That's not a qualification. I do understand your confusion though. Nowhere did I ever say one was better, simply asking if the gym replaced the bar which has traditionally the easiest place to meet women, there's literally a term called ladies night. in my opinion you wouldn't be the best person to answer a question like this because you simply don't have enough experience with women.

[CubaPirate]

What about the supermarket 🤔

[Vegasrunner]

@CubaPirate That's a good one, hotter women at the gym though usually.

[thearchjoker]

neither are