Is it possible to change the physical appearance you’re attracted to?

[Babygirl_S]

Is it possible if you can never be the dream girl of those you desire? 🥲

[GlitteringWorld]

If I’m interpreting your question or description correctly, my advice would be this: never feel pressured to change your appearance for someone else if you’re genuinely happy with how you look when you see yourself in the mirror. Your self-worth and confidence should come from within, not from trying to meet someone else's expectations. The right person will love you for who you are, flaws and all, and won't ask you to change to fit their ideal. True love is about acceptance and appreciation of the real you, not a version of you molded to suit someone else's preferences. Focus on being the best version of yourself for your own happiness, and the right person will value and cherish that.

[LiamS95]

I fully agree with your statement.

[GlitteringWorld]

Thank you

[Crimsyjo]

To some extent yes. As we grow older we have to. And sometimes it's just a natural change based on perceptions and experiences. But generally a guy that treats you well can have you liking him over his initial attraction-factor to you. So it's good to be open minded and not only focus on one "type".

[college-student2021]

Unfortunately sometimes one dosent get everything one wants in life , look for personality and if the man truly cares for you. Because looks can fade.


But if you truly want to find someone of those looks you will need to either leave India and live in either Europe, Canada or the states. Or try online dating which has its risks.

[Maybeyoutoo]

She looks more Iranian than Indian

[Nirmroth]

You can. If you make good experiences your brain will wire you to be reminded subconciously of good Times when seeing a person that resembles the person you had this with.
My ex changed the Type of girl I am attracted to aswell

[alice55]

Yes and no I guess it depend on the person I know that when I was a teen I only was attracted to blonde blue eyes guy (like guy looking like Markus Rehm or Kevin Mayer) or Asian guys (especially those who had oval shaped face and very slanted eyes). Now I'm attracted to all body type (expect obesity) and all hair color (for example I find Timotee Chalamet attractive now that I'm 25 and at 15 never would I have looked twice at him) though I'm still weak for blonde eyes / blue eyes combo guys could be considered as under average and I would still be more into him than a attractive brunette so to my opinion you can board your horizon but your preference still stay a preference until you die.

[alice55]

used to be only attracted to guys long like the when I was 15 :



Now I'm also attracted to skinnier / bigger guys and others hair color.

[Berethor]

I used to have problem with skinny girls, now I don't, so I think it possible to an extent, also I don't expect to date a girl with perfect looks, I don't think that it's realistic.

[Ukrainianbuddafly]

If you are straight can you choose to be attracted to your gender? I don't think you can control what you are physically attracted to

[ProbablyClueless]

I don't see why it wouldn't be? Most people are going to have a few different things they'll be attracted to. It only makes sense that you'll discover new combinations throughout life.

[LiamJHayden]

Well I've never really cared about anything physical other than her not being obese. Race, eye, skin, hair color and figure are unimportant to me, other than the aforementioned desire than she not be obese.

[WhitneySnow]

I think so. It just takes willpower and recognition that most people are attractive in some way if they have a good personality.

[KostasKouvalis]

Yeah, people claim you can't, but I've heard people say they stopped caring about looks when they bonded with the person and liked everything else about them.

Anyways, you and me both

[Lynx122]

You can just shift your priorities to care more about personality.

[Hannajenky]

Maybe if you keep getting burned by a specific type of guy or girl in your personal life I don't know

[John_Cobretti]

Both the dudes in the images are married though

[Babygirl_S]

The first one isn’t

[John_Cobretti]

True but he has a girlfriend and she got pregnant few months ago...

[Bklynbadboy12]

Nope you like what you like we dont control that just like you can't control whom you fall in love with

[Maybeyoutoo]

You look like Iranian, lady. Men who look like the man in the photo will like you.

[NathanDavis]

I believe in you...

[chrissykerdock]

long as he has a pulse and he's a man

[Texaskid1]

It may change naturally with age.

[Yesdarlingmoon]

love changes things

[jackieistired]

Yuuuupp

[power_wolf]

probalby not

[noohair]

I don't think so.