Should I trust my intuition if it's telling me he's talking to another woman?

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Finchie40 · Accepted Answer

If your gut instincts are telling you something is off, than usually your gut is telling you the truth. But only you can figure this out on whether he is or isn’t , Has he been acting weird around you , or distant around you? Do you sense a difference? If so. It’s best for you not to confront him , until you have solid evidence that he is doing so , because if he knows you are on to him , he will cover his tracks even more making it harder for you to bust him , so it’s best to play investigation without getting caught.

V_Injector · Accepted Answer

Yes... Always trust it unless you're doing for bullshit reasons out of your own guilt of talking to other men.

People with guilty minds tend to project their inner intentions onto others. If that's not you, then you better trust yourself before you trust him.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I would say yes but don’t jump to conclusions just yet. Look for evidence, ask yourself what exactly is causing you to feel this way and watch his behavior. I for one tend to get extra suspicious when it’s that time of the month, but usually when I start vividly dreaming about sus behavior is when I trust my gut feeling.

maddieisfineasf · Accepted Answer

yes always trust your gut. my opinion ask for his phone and if he's hesitant your gut is probably right. if he isn't hesitant still go through the phone because if your gut is telling you he is talking to another female he probably is the female gut is extremely strong and tells us things we don't even know.

BetaBucks · Answer

I say yes. I'm a firm believer in intuition. I legitimately believe we can read the thoughts of people we are close with. Not in some sci-fi way, but something like an undeveloped sense. Like what sound was while animals were developing ears.

Alternative view here is paranoia and insecurity. Pretty hard to distinguish without knowing you.

jshm2 · Answer

No. That shit is only real in novels and movies.

TALK to him face to face and ask the real questions. If he's not convincing, then start gathering evidence to prove he's not being honest.

Playing games is how you end up in shit relationships.

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Anonymous · Answer

Depends. No not every man is talking to multiple women the way someone else said. I know I don’t after 15 years together. All men aren’t talking to multiple women because guess what? Women find about 80% of men unattractive. That means all these men aren’t even talking to women at all because women aren’t talking to them. I say yes your fit is usually a good indication or feeling, but I’d make sure you have more to go on first.

Twalli · Answer

You have that "intuition" because it happened to you in the past. If you actually learned something from those relationships, you should only believe that if he has the same actions those guys did. If you just assume he is because he won't show you his phone or because you don't trust guys, then you're probably wrong.

lightbulb27 · Answer

who programmed your gut? No, but it's a flag to pay attention to for sure.

Raxll11 · Answer

You can't feel something like this for no reason. If there is a doubt inside, there is a high probability that it will turn out to be true.

its_amelia_c · Answer

Do your research! Gut instincts can sometimes be right!!!

Radiate143 · Answer

You should assume he already has a list he is working through from the time you both said hello.

AshleyJarrett · Answer

Every guy is talking to multiple women. No matter what anyone says

Juxtapose · Answer

See how far your intuition gets you in a court of law.  There's a reason for that standard. Respect your boyfriend and rely on evidence instead of bullshit feelings.

dragoblack · Answer

No. From experience sometimes women mix paranoia with gut feelings, especially when a relationship is going well.  Try to find evidence and talk to him about how you feel

LiamJHayden · Answer

I always go with my gut on things like this.

art84 · Answer

Yes you should trust your women's intuition.

Crazzyyworld · Answer

Sadly yes but I would be cautious to jump into conclusion. I would give it a time.

the29thhuman · Answer

Yes Absolutely.  Something’s giving you a vibe that he isn’t to be trusted.

Pohjolan · Answer

He probably is. Does he not have female relatives or coworkers?

buzzword · Answer

How many fingers am I holding up?

Paris13 · Answer

I feel your RED FLAG. I Believe You. xxoo

slatyb · Answer

Your intuition? What's happening?

Miristheiss · Answer

Yes, trust your gut.

DrPepper12 · Answer

ALWAYS trust your gut. ALWAYS. It's rarely wrong.

TheCaller · Answer

You should always trust your instincts

noohair · Answer

And what is your plan?

Slightlyconfused23 · Answer

Trust your instincts there never wrong

Ladsin2 · Answer

Talk to him.

Anonymous · Answer

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