Is it fine for a woman to ask a guy after three months, 20 dates and exclusivity to delete all his dating app profiles?

[LilliElisabeth]

I have already asked this question about a month ago but he did not want to delete it back then and said that things were moving too quickly. Given that it has been a month now since I asked this question, do you think it is fine to ask it again?

[Anonymous]

Wtf. I would have dumped him a long time ago. Clearly he’s not into you if he continues to be on the dating apps, and if he’s not on the dating apps then there’s no problem deleting them. Why would you date someone exclusively for 3 months shen he clearly isn’t serious about you and continues to talk to or date others (which means it’s not exclusive)? Just move on. Telling him to delete them will just make him hide them from you because he doesn’t want to delete them. He should have done that on his own initiative after the first few dates and you decided to seriously continue seeing each other. And certainly after you asked the last time, you should have run away when he said no. Don’t be exclusive with a man who isn’t exclusive and serious about you. It’s not about moving too fast either. You know earlt on if you want to see someone seriously and if you do then out of respect for the other person AND to keep your focus on them and give the two of you a real chance you stop the dating apps and don’t talk to others.

[LilliElisabeth]

Thank you! You helped me so much!

[Anonymous]

Personally, I would never date someone who uses dating apps. That red flag is waving right in your face.

[LilliElisabeth]

We met on a dating app...

[slatyb]

You can ask. You may not get. Has he said the he is dating only you?

[BarryLiverstone]

Are you his girlfriend? In a committed relationship?

[LilliElisabeth]

No, we are not in a relationship but we have been dating seriously for three months

[BarryLiverstone]

That’s long enough. Don’t you want to only date him?

[Anonymous]

It's fine to ask. Doesn't mean just because you ask the answers going to be yes though. Like it or not, you don't get to decide this.

[LilliElisabeth]

Thank you - you are right

[EnjoytheDay777]

Yes, I think it's understandable

[power_wolf]

you can ask but he can do whatever he wants