Unless you're exclusive he can do whatever he wants. If he agreed to delete it and didn't then is that a guy you can trust down the road? A guy who says he will do something but doesn't? I think what we have here is his behavior is not what you are looking for. Calling him out is a waste of time and energy unless you think he will say OMG I am so sorry you're right I will delete it lol
I don't see the point in him saying he deleted it but still updating his profile, in that case he didn't and is still looking for other options. I would bring it up and ask him if wants to be serious with you or not and he needs to give a direct answer. If he can't or tries to make it seem like you're doing too much, then just tell him it's best to go your separate ways and not waste time.
If he can't respect your wishes then I'd cut him off. You should talk to him about it but if he still decides to keep it, he's not worth your time and is only lying to you, and telling you what you wanna hear. I just got out of a relationship with a jerk like that and he cheated on me. So huge red flag I'd say.
u Call him out so you can "force" him to be honest and do the right thing? Do you really think this guy could be The One. . . or is this the wrting on the wall, the warning sign that you later wish you had heeded?
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Yes absolutely. If he specifically told you he was deleting it (as a sign that he wasn't looking for someone else now that you two have hit-it-off) then... yea... what's the deal?
As long as you are still active on your dating app - it is entirely reasonable and expected for himself to be active on his. Either you are both exclusive to each other - or you both decide not to be exclusive to each other and just dating casually for fun. I don't see any double standards here.
But voth of you should just make aure you are on the same page if you were expecting him to delete hsi while you feel perfectly fine to continue using yours - unless that is the skewed dynamic you were each actually wanting to occur anyway - it seems like a double standard.
Don’t call him out for it. Tell him exactly what you want (ie I want us to be exclusive and I want you to be faithful with me and this includes not using dating apps). If he agrees to do it that’s great. If he doesn’t then leave him. If he wants to be with you he will make it work. If he doesn’t make it work he doesn’t want to be with you and this will never change.
As the saying goes “there’s plenty of other fish in the sea.” Who cares about him…. clearly he doesn’t care about you or your feelings. I’m sure you’re smart enough to know exactly what to do..
Unfortunately if the two of you aren't official and you haven't agreed to a monogamous relationship then you both can do what you want you can either accept this or walk away.
Yaaaa ehhh sooo he is already being fishy and you're not even in a relationship with him yet. I'd call him out on it but I wouldn't expect a future moving forward ya...
I would just stop the contact, he clearly doesn't see you as the more that he is searching for
He’s using you trying to get some action.. not actually in love with you in the slightest
Yes I would bring it up and see what he has to say about it.
no. let it go and move on. he's not serious like he's saying
The guy is already proven as a liar. Find someone else.
Yep, sounds like he's not committed to you. Tell him, and ask him.
And don't give him any sex for the moment. To be sure that's not what he is after.
No, don't do anything about it. You love him. You love chasing those bad boys and you can't do anything about it. It's what you are attracted to, and he's giving that to you.
Nope don't call him out on it just move on he's just trying to fuck. If you call him on it he'll just hide it and whatever you do don't have sex with him. Pm me if you want to know more
Well you only deserve the best tbh. You’re the most beautiful woman on earth and that guy is completely clueless.
Yes call him out. The only updating he should be doing is saying he found someone.
If he's the kind of guy who can get matches on a dating app... he's out of your league, and every other girls league.
You saw him twice. It’s none of your business.
You went out 2 times or awhile?
Absolutely call him out on his bs!
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