Should I believe him?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend has given me no reason to mistrust him, but I also have dealt with cheating exes in the past. Cheating to me includes lusting after other women online. The other night I went onto his Instagram account that he never uses and I looked through his link history. There were two women he had clicked links on that had spicy content. I immediately got nauseous but what was weird was it only showed that he opened their Amazon store front links? He was shocked when he saw it too and swore he got hacked. It did not say that there was another location logged into his account but when he logged out of it he was unable to log back in with the original password. Could his account had been hacked? And do hackers specifically go to Amazon links? Maybe they were trying to use his card if it was linked to Instagram? I don’t know how to look that sort of thing up, and I want to believe he is telling the truth.

[Summeroflove]

So someone just hacked him and opened oddly specific accounts up? Okay anything is possible but not probable claiming to be hacked is one of the oldest excuses in the book for being caught.

Logically and instinctually to feel nauseous you probably deep down know something was going on. If you don’t trust him you can break off the relationship on as good of terms as possible. That you don’t have a good feeling about things and you just don’t feel it anymore. You can do that…. It may be for the best.

Also, how did he look shocked? Shocked you found it? Scared because he’s worried you seen more? Or…. Genuinely surprised. Maybe he needs to have his cellular device forensically searched to see if it was really a hacker because you’re right its a WEIRD story. Anything is possible but it’s not probable.

[Asker]

They were weird accounts though, like not people that I would expect to have content. He was also genuinely shocked, he made like a “eugh” sound when he saw it and didn’t get defensive, more confused. I just don’t understand how it was JUST Amazon links AND when I looked up how long he was on his account it only said two minutes?

[Asker]

Also, he never has much time on his hands, and when he does is either coming to see me or FaceTiming me. That’s why I find it hard to mistrust him.

[Summeroflove]

Yes asker maybe shocked you found it. If they are OF girls or posting skimpy photos. I doubt they’re posting political context or food recipes. I doubt there is any good reaosn for following

[Summeroflove]

It’s weird I have no idea like I said anything is possible. Maybe he accidentally clicked the links somehow someway? I don’t know but it is weird.

[Summeroflove]

If they were just blank bot accounts. Yeah it’s odd I have no idea really. Maybe it is innocent enough I don't know

[Anonymous]

Trust your man baby he is an honest man he is an honorable man he is a noble man