Should I believe him?

[Anonymous]

This man I’m dating says that if we end up sleeping together earlier than we’d planned on, that he will still want to be my partner, for something long term. This will be our second date.

[Summeroflove]

If you’re having to ask if you should believe someone then you probably should go with your gut someone rushing sex is a major red flag that either they’re a sex addict, they’re just wanting sex, or both. Unfortunately, some people aren’t honest about their intentions even if they could find someone who just wants sex some people see that as easy and wants a challenge. Not a genuine relationship…. If that’s what he wants let him sleep with hoes and see how that works out in the end for him.

It’s only your second date I don’t think really either one of you should completely trust the other you barely even know one another yet and it seems he’s desperate and pushing for sex. It’s your choice to break it off but if you have a bad feeling. Go with that.

[SteveSmith1985]

If it's your second date, and he's looking for something long term. He'll be willing to wait. That doesn't mean that if you sleep together that he won't want something long term BECAUSE you slept with him early.

Of course he would prefer to sleep with you now. But if you're inclined to wait until somebody is committed a little bit before sleeping with him... then you should wait.

Do not sleep with him, assuming it'll be fine (maybe it will, but no assurance. Depends on the guy)/

*Wait assuming that if he wants something long-term, he will be willing to wait.*

In short, having sex early isn't going to affect whether he is indeed in it for the long term or not. So if you're inclined to wait, for whatever reason. That is what you should do.

🙂

[Valdemort]

Believe him, just don't sleep with him.

[ohsheeT]

Guys. Will say anything.

He will be your partner for something

Like your partner for the three legged race.

If a guy is totally serious
he's not going to say anything
he's gonna let it happen the way it happens and he's not going to try to manipulate you

Or empress you he's just going to love you
And when you're ready

He will be ready

[Uglygaypoorcoward94]

Sounds about right