One girl from school?

[InTheShadow]

In my school there is one girl who wanted to be in a relationship with me. I rejected because she had a boyfriend at the same time and we’ve known each other for a week. One year passed. Right now I think that I may feel something to her but we don’t have really contact with each other. What should I do?

[Oliverlogan263]

Ah man, that's a tricky situation. On one hand, I can understand being interested in a girl from school now that some time has passed. But there's definitely some things to consider carefully first before making any moves.

I'd say the main thing is, has her relationship situation changed at all since last year? If she's still with the same dude, I wouldn't try anything there out of respect.

You could maybe try sliding into her DMs casual like, saying something like "hey, been a while! how's it going?" and see how she responds. Her attitude will tell you a lot - is she cool chatting or does she seem weirded out you hit her up? Pay attention to those signals.

If she seems open, you could try asking mutual friends about her status too, see if they know if she's still dating the guy or not. Get the intel before moving forward.

But honestly bro, if you don't know for sure she's single, I'd cool it for now. No sense risking drama or messing with someone else's girl, ya know? Play it cool, keep an eye out, and maybe something natural could happen down the line if the timing's better. Just my two cents!

[AviatorTom]

It never hurts to reach out to someone. Contact her, tell her you were thinking of her, and ask her how she's doing. Her reply will let you know what your next step should be.

Important adage... It never hurts to ask!

[BadApple69]

Reach out to her… what do you have to lose.

[InTheShadow]

She’s friends with another girl that bullied me

[ThinkerShell]

How the other girl has bullied you?

[BadApple69]

@InTheShadow. It’s been my way all my life… if I want something I will claw my way through hell to get it. Don’t let anything or anyone stop you.
How are you bullied? I was bullied by a girl in kindergarten, that was the last time anyone would or could bully me. Stand up for yourself. If you allow this bully to stop you then you don’t really want this girl that much… move on.