Would You Date A Woman Where You Constantly Have To Be Watching Your Wallet?

[Anonymous]

I met a woman on a dating app, and on each date, I took her to a nice restaurant and paid for everything. It was a strictly platonic relationship, but I enjoyed her company.

I didn't pay much attention to the bill when I paid it. However, one time, it was too high, so I complained. She told me that she ordered a takeout meal for her landlord. I asked her how long she had been ordering things without my knowledge, but she didn't reply.

I told her, "It isn't right that you do this," I made her pay for the meal. She was very upset with me and said all the other guys she dated let her do this. We went out a few more times, but I paid attention to the bill this time. She ordered a take-home order each time, and I made her pay for it.

I stopped calling her about three months ago, and I miss her company. I really enjoyed spending time with her, and I'm thinking of calling her again.

However, it bothers me that I always have to look at my wallet. Would you date a woman like this?

[Telekinetic-Potato]

This is what guys are talking about when they say gold digger.

Don't let her gaslight you into thinking a sex less relationship where you pay for her boyfriends food is normal.

She's a pro. Remember everything you can about what blinded you.

[Finchie40]

You should of ended dating her right then and there when she ordered her landlord food , she is probably banging him as well

[jojouzumaki]

Save yourself now and stay away from her. It sounds that her intention clearly is to have a meal for her and her landlord (eeeew 🤢 ) and not to genuinely enjoy your company. It’s not worth of your time at all!!! You deserve better.

[Caroline91]

Try lees expensive dates focused on each other’s company? My favorite date is ice cream and people watching. But, I’m not a cheap date…I want a double scoop cone!!

[Summeroflove]

Yeah you can’t let someone steal that’s a crime. File a criminal complaint

[MJVillarama]

Nah. If you don’t trust someone with your wallet, you definitely can’t trust them with your heart or your peace. A relationship shouldn’t feel like loss prevention
I learned this from Jared psych, "trust issues are a dealbreaker, not a challenge to overcome.

[Texaskid1]

I would spend some money on this lovely Queen...

... that is in the form of a one way ticket to North - Korea so that little Rocket Man can make her one of his many wives.

No... he's mine!!!

[RingOfFire]

If I were you I would not call her. She owes you an apology and she didn't give it. What she did is dishonest. I don't have a relationships with dishonest people who do things behind my back and take advantage of me that they know I don't approve of.

That's the definition of being used.

You're sacrificing your self respect for someone who is dishonest and doesn't have any respect for you.

[lorenzomichael]

Fuck no never. First of all I would have never took her to a real expensive restaurant unless we were with each other for a while. If not we’re going to Applebees and if she didn’t like it fuck it I’ll leave her there. I’m an asshole sometimes I know, but I’m also nice guy and I don’t let nobody take advantage of me.

[SeriouslyNotSerious]

Who is this landlord and why is she buying food for him/her? LMAO. 😭😂

[Billlewis]

Of course -- they're the best ones to date/serve.

[Anonymous]

If you constantly have to be watching your wallet. She’s not into you. Physically

UNDERSTAND

@bob92220

[paledreams]

Hmm as Burnsy would say, I'd rather keep the dollar and feel happier 💰💵

[paledreams]

"it's that auto dialler again"/)) lol Simpsons

[Anonymous]

Going to have to call bullshit on this, because--how the fuck could you NOT realize she was ordering a takeout meal AT A RESTAURANT when you're sitting at the same table as she is?

[Unit1]

typical case of men loving gold diggers. Yuck!

🤢🤮

[Staximus]

That's fucked up, her landlord can buy their own damned food.

[LiamJHayden]

She was using you. Move on and find someone who appreciates you.

[cyclekarl]

All women are like that they are all gold diggers!

[whataGIRLLwants]

Umm as a woman saying this…. Let her go. She’s using you for your money.

[Jmmmfi4]

LOL WHAT THE FUCK? THAT BITCH THINKS THATS NORMAL? HEEEEEEEELL NO

[queenofcardio]

No. That's so weird 😕

[slatyb]

Hell no. She's a liar and a thief.

[Xwtxx]

No way. I dislike gold diggers.

[Crazzyyworld]

All women want sex money glamour vanity..

[Aphroditee7777]

Lol I didn’t know men liked this

[chocolatetwopointo]

nope