Why do guys say a woman’s wealth doesn’t matter?

[Babygirl_S]

I have never seen an attractive rich guy with a poor girl 🐒

[Berethor]

Women tend to be gold diggers, men don't. Partner's money tend to be low on man's priorities, most men would choose poor young woman over old rich woman, I mean look what happen to Shakira, who is even looking good for her age, yet her husband left her for a woman half her age, Shakira is much more rich than that young woman, but it don't matter. Traditionally men prefer youth, good looks and virgnity in women, a woman can be housewife, some modern men might care about woman's money but still nowhere near how women tend to care about man's money. Sure an attractive rich woman might be better than poor rich woman, if she get her wealth while young, which is not likely, but men tend to care much more about women's attractiveness than woman’s wealth.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hypergamy#Research

[Berethor]

I mean sure an attractive rich woman might be better than poor attractive woman.

[Babygirl_S]

So of course her wealth makes her more attractive

[Berethor]

Only to top men and only if she already attractive? while women go for wealth in general.

[Babygirl_S]

So a woman’s wealth matters in fact

[MisterWack]

“ I have never seen an attractive rich guy with a poor girl.”

Doesn’t mean that it doesn’t exist.

It is difficult to say this there aren’t extensive lists, though some I found were: Elvis chose his special girl because she didn’t know who he was. Ronnie James Dio chose his woman from one night 1970s in Los Angeles seeing her work as a waitress at the ‘Rainbow’. Can’t find anything else….

[Kelley1]

You have not really looked. After she is with him, she is not poor. Men tell me, "It's not your money, I'm after." Regardless, it is not wise to marry a poor girl. She is poor because her family has poor ways and their ways are her ways.

[Babygirl_S]

Not all people are born with daddy’s money 💰

[Kelley1]

Rich guys have options. Although he is not interested in a girl's money, he can avoid the problems that come from girls raised by single mothers and poor families.

[xoxosilentgirl]

attractive rich guy with attractive poor girl pairing is pretty common actually. The rare one is rich attractive girl and poor guy (either attractive or not)

[Babygirl_S]

They usually go for attractive rich girls. It’s common to see an unattractive rich guy with an attractive poor girl

[AviatorTom]

We guys know that we're gonna end up supporting her anyway, so who cares how poor it wealthy she might be. 🙊🙉🙈🙄

[LiamJHayden]

Because guys in general simply do not care anywhere nearly as much as women in general do. For me, I already own my house (inherited), another house (also inherited - I guess the one advantage of being the only child of two only children), over a dozen other rental units, and a business. I'm not what I would call rich, but I am not hurting by any measure. I do not care what a lady earns. She can be a partner in a law firm or a checker at a market for all I care.

[Babygirl_S]

Even a waitress?

[DextroShade]

Because it doesn't make her more attractive and honestly to get wealthy she either had to whore herself out or be masculine, competitive, and disagreeable; these are all off-putting to men. Also, her money doesn't benefit him in any way because she will still expect a guy to pay for things regardless of how much money she has, as in "My money is MY money but his money is OUR money!"

[beefcakebradybatson]

Because unless the woman is an heiress or movie star or even billionairess willing to marry a poor lad, which occurs with dog -bites- man frequency, men don't care about her wealth because they're generally more flush than she if they're pursuing such a lass.

[Nikki1989]

You are joking, right. There are millions of working men while the wife is stuck at home.

[ProbablyClueless]

Because we don't look at women for their ability to provide. Wealthy women have more money to spend on self care, which is probably more why men would go for them.

[BoopBoopBeep]

Sure you have. There are tons of rich guys who have wives who don't work at all.

[NathanDavis]

it doesn't really matter to me, as long as she's independent

[katiesmuff]

Tom Brady the retired football player his ex wife is worth more than he is.

[nawtee_me]

A woman’s wealth means nothing to me. Her money doesn’t make her more or less attractive in any way. I am not after her wealth. A Godly woman is more precious than gold.

[genericname85]

Cause men care for looks and character. Not for money.

[MicahRaine]

What are you talking about lmao have you not seen any rich guys with gold diggers?

[Vanny20]

Money and material items would fade and finish, but true heart, sincere love and affection will last the rest of times

[MrGSpotHer]

I've never seen a rich girl with a poor that's for sure, but I've seen that quite a lot

[SunnyRS]

Of course it matters.
It will matter a lot more if she gives me five percent of it plus tax.

[Babygirl_S]

You’re a male gold digger

[SunnyRS]

Well if she earns in gold, then sure I am ready to be it.
Otherwise a money digger would be fine, dear.

[Bklynbadboy12]

You see it all the time what you won't see is an attractive rich woman with a poor guy

[jamesgoldman]

That's because they know the risk in divorce

[Jennz6]

Guys support women

[gatixek710]

lol, yes you have all the time.

[TallAnon]

Seen it plenty.