1 yI think I care more about their moral positions than any of that. I can drop that factor for chicks that seek a sexual thing, but a relationship thing is different. I'm not going to have a good relationship with someone that thinks cheating me is fine because of whatever justification she comes up with on a whim.
She can be shy or confident all she wants, but how she makes decisions matters more to me.

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3.2K opinions shared on Dating topic. I prefer the shy woman there is an art to making love and touch. And there's many different levels of seduction of tease of taking them some place they've never been before.
I have found that confident women are in too much of a hurry. And sometimes get kind of aggressive just way too fast16 Reply- 1 y
That's interesting. I'm confident, but part of that is being confident in my femininity, which doesn't include aggressive.
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Yes I probably shouldn't have used the word confident
Maybe I should have used the word horndog almost controlling or maybe is controlling
To the point of like the Snicker commercial and the lady says get in my belly so horndog might have been a better word because I have been with shy confident girls that are very feminine and are totally relaxed and get into it maybe I should have said overconfident or just horndog yeah just horn dog LOL - 1 y
Did ya finally make up your mind about that? lol 😉
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No not really. Lol sometimes when I answer question I think or I talk like people know me and understand what I'm trying to say. So I guess I should have said I like shy confident women. Because they are only shy for so long and the confidence kicks in
What I don't like are aggressive women - 1 y
Well, at least you got it thought through. lol. You know, sometimes I think reserved gets mistaken for shy.
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True I mean that's part of being shy is being reserved you don't want somebody to know what you like and what you don't like because in that way they judge you are you think they do
I mean I used to be that way I didn't want anybody to know how kinky I was or am. Because it could be embarrassing or you're thinking you don't want your parents to know you're this way LOL I've been in so many different things but as in time when the relationship keeps going and going and going it just becomes more and more open and better and better but I think you're right yes
My sister tells me (in her eyes) I always tend to gravitate to the nerds.🤷🏻♀️ Just cause they might not have rock solid abs, blonde hair, blue eyes, and a perfect beach tan skin and they might happen to be more shy and wear glasses doesn't mean they can't have a heart of gold.🤣
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You’re so right.
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I'd say I'm more confident. I might be more introverted just cause I find small talk meaningless and I only talk when necessary and I prefer to only call my real closest friends my true friends. I'm a tomboy, I'm sarcastic, prefer hobbies like shooting guns over shoe shopping & make-up, not a bubbly chatty Cathy, and am not afraid to call someone out on their 🐂💩BS instead of being to shy afraid to step on toes and avoid someone becoming upset, but that doesn't mean I'm super "confident" wearing the pants in the relationship, the dominant partner, or into BDSM in the bedroom.😆
I perf confident partner. Without relationships wouldn’t last cause they mistrust had ex without it. Relationship didn’t last.
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1 yConfident! Please, god just give me a confident woman.
Shit, at this point, I'd settle for someone who wasn't scared of her own shadow.
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Lol it sounds like you’ve been through the mill.
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A bit, yes! lol I think it's more just that I'm tired of having my time, energy, and effort wasted by people who make forming relationships pointlessly difficult. So often, women being shy takes the form of them refusing to communicate incredibly basic things, and that's unacceptable.
Women being shy can make every little thing difficult. And I think it especially bothers me because I am the kind of guy who will directly ask you if something is okay/not okay, what your opinion on something is, etc; and many times women will give me crickets. So the idea of someone not feeling comfortable telling me what they think just makes me throw my hands into the air and give up.
Like... if I ask you for your opinion on something and you refuse to tell me... I guess I'm just not sure what more I could possibly do. - 1 y
That sounds reasonable.
I prefer a shy woman if she a virgin, if she is not a virgin then her being shy is pretty silly.
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1 yConfident, but none of this "boss bitch" energy people are trying to project. You can be confident and still be a nice person.
10 Reply To answer your question as succinctly as possible: "yes."
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m 1 yI prefer a genuinely confident person... and more on the assertive side as well
20 Reply Shy, and still quietly confident. Aggressive women are exactly as cringe as dudes that try to be macho. Such a ridiculous turn off.
00 Reply2.3K opinions shared on Dating topic. I much prefer a very confident, even arrogant woman.
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m 1 yFrom experience, my answer is definitely yes !
00 Reply 657 opinions shared on Dating topic. - I preferred confidence, female.
- She must be self reliance person.
- She must ba a initiative in romance.
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1 yI prefer shy women for romantic relationships
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1 yConfident is great. I am also fine with shy as long as once she knows me she calls me out when I'm wrong.
00 Reply I prefer confident women 🥰💃
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@KathrynTaylor but I like shy men
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I like in between men. I’m drawn to shy women as friends.
734 opinions shared on Dating topic. Shy and confident are not mutually exclusive in my opinion.
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1 yI personally can't deal with shy women.
A confident woman is comfortable in her skin and the energy I have with them is what I like.00 Reply I don't have any strong preference for either. It's much more important if she's pleasant to be around, a good person, cooperative, etc; than if she's confident or shy.
00 ReplyI really like confident women. Powerful women are a turn on.
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1 yConfidence is everything.
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Oh? Why so?
Something in between. What about you?
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In between
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I like in between too
1 yAs my previous coment i prefer confident one
12 ReplyI think unnecessary shyness is a turn off
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For me as well
I like confident women but seem to always date shy women lol
00 Reply15K opinions shared on Dating topic. Why can't she be shy and confident?
30 ReplyI like confident people
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Anonymous(36-45)1 yI prefer confident and dominant girls.
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Yeah? Why is that? 😊
Opinion Owner1 yThey turn me on. I guess it's because I'm too shy, that's why I like assertive girls.
1 yConfident all the way baby
00 ReplyI prefer confident women.
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@KathrynTaylor Thank you for the Like
1.7K opinions shared on Dating topic. Confidence without being overbearing.
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1 yShy women 🌟
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1 yConfident women, although I like a good cuddle
00 Reply3K opinions shared on Dating topic. either
10 Reply340 opinions shared on Dating topic. Confident.
00 Reply672 opinions shared on Dating topic. super confident!
00 Replyi prefer funny girls
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1 yConfident woman
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