I hate how this poll makes it any introverted/shy guys aren't confident. All I see is extroverted guy vs introverted guy. Shy guys can be confident, but confidence in each type is different in my opinion. A "confident" guy aka the extrovert, his confidence is with talking, charming voice, I don't know Cocky, etc. A shy guy probably is more behaved and mannered, doesn't really use words as much/conversation. They don't give much care to what they look or act like. They'll probably do more expressions like smiles/winks or obvious gestures like gifts (ex: giving you flowers/chocolates. Their body language is open, walk "confidently". They can not say anything and be confident. So this question is just a bad one.
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I think shy guys because we are literally too shy to flirt, cheat or even talk to a woman, and that puts a woman's mind at ease, dont get it twisted if your shy and she's not she's probably fucking you about too
I like shy/quiet guys who might be a little awkward or skittish. I think it's because I'm also shy so it's not as intimidating. Plus it makes me more confident that they won't stray, if they are shy and have a hard time talking to people I can't imagine they would hit on someone else. Overly confident guys give me the creeps. Especially the type who try to pick you up, all i can think is how many other girls they've tried to pick up this week. I love some bashfulness, it makes me feel special. If a guy is quiet and shy and I can get him to open up to me it makes me feel like really special to him. I love why guys!
My boyfriend is a shy guy, and I love him a lot. I love how he came out of his comfort zone and how much of a good boyfriend he is and I know he is super loyal. In my opinion confident guys can get a bit to cocky and also makes me develop more trust issues. However I love confident guys as well. Either was in a relationship both people need to step out of your comfort zones at times and you get confident and comfortable around each other.
It honestly sucks to be around 100% shy guys. They usually are total killjoys and never go for what they want in life since their anxieties hold them back.
I would prefer a happy medium, where the guys is self-confident but not overly proud and arrogant.
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Confident. It's easier to work with, it's more attractive, you never have to play guessing-games, etc.
I am shy myself.. confident people give me anxiety cause im not super out going either and I'm afraid they will see that.. which they will. They will just end up getting bored of me lol So I need someone who is boring too XD
As a girl, I prefer a confident guy. Most guys, however prefer shy girls. I am kind of a shy girl, and I dated another shy guy things might get awkward... So I prefer a guy who is confident, well presented, and most of all, a great sense of humor, even if the jokes aren't funny... just enough to make me laugh. I love when guys make me laugh. :D
I like when a guy is shy around me at the start and then once we become a pair, he gets confident and proud. xD
Both are equally attractive. Unless:
-the confident guys starts doing crazy and immature sht
-the shy guy is so shy he doesn't open up or anything
then that is not attractive, but annoyingEither really but the confident guy will quicker come talk to me. The shy guy I'd have to go to him in most cases.
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It's easier to approach a shy guy, it's better to be approached by a confident guy :-)
Confident guys are easy. You know right off the bat where you stand with them, and women generally don't have to "do" anything to chase after them. So, yeah, part of it's laziness. But honestly, I prefer "playful" guys if that makes sense? Guys can be confident AND dull, too.
I like confident, this is probably due to the obvious phycological alpha effect a confident man can have on a woman. Sending dominating vibes.
But also subconciously I'm drawn to a more confident person, because confident people are better communicators, are more social, and more aware of what they want, which are all things that I like to see.Shy guy, because they have cute expressions of themselves they are well behaviored than confidents dudes, Please don't critize whatever I said I know there are guys have shy and bad mannered it's my opinion about it
I find confident guys hot and sexy but there’s something about shy and awkward guys that really gets me goin
I knew confident was going to win, but I am somewhat surprised that shy got as many votes as it did.
I prefer shy guys who are willing to take chances and leave their comfort zone if the situation calls for it.
The thing is, some guys CAN pull off the shy guy mode. When you find a guy who can pull it off, it’s sexy as fuck! Lol but I guess it’s more “manly” for him to be confident and dominant. But I love a guy who has both (who’s confident but CAN be shy around me)
The cutest girls will chose shy guys in my opinion. I'm not shy nor confident and I'm not in to hot girls.
I'd prefer a little of both. Bashful can be cute but high ego? No thanks
A confident guy without a big ego. He needs to have a balance. If I was forced to choose I would say shy.
Im a pretty shy guy it takes a while for me to feel comfortable around someone i like is there any suggestions on what i can do to break outta this shell and start to be more outgoing?
I'm kinda both, at times I am confident and times I am shy. I would say I am slightly more confident than shy. Or I would had never met my intelligent, beautiful wife
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