I am an Aries, as well as natural born leaderr. Day in and out, i zet bars go beyond limita. If hanot ft ound a man ti stands as i falter, ve brazen should I lack strength. Laugh aa i cry, make me laugh harder when chillaxin!!!
I like confident guys. I NEED a confident guy. Shy guys are not for me. I like guys that aren't afraid to voice their opinion, tell me when I'm wrong and doesn't stay to them self when meeting/hanging out with friends.
More confident than shy but a combination of both. I think shy isn't the word for what I prefer actually. I like confident men who are laid back. But at the same time mutable and can make me laugh.
Same goes for men and women we all find confidence attractive. There is nothing cute about a guy who comes in looking down slouching his shoulders and doesn’t know how to hold a conversation. Same goes for women. Confidence is key! :)
I think there are way more shy people that don't act the way u mention above. A guys walks up to talk to u and seems confident doesn't mean he isn't shy. Sometimes a guy just have to act, break the ice then feel confident to continue the conversation depending on the girls reaction
u said there is nothing cute about a guy who comes looking down with a slouthing shoulder... That represents a shy guy. I consider myself shy and I have to get my shit together and make a move. I seem confident but im sweating inside hoping only I notice im shaking. Only I know how nervous I am. I get really tense especially if she is really hot or I really like her but I manage. It works better if I think she is already into me. All these girls think Im not shy. I am just good at pushing myself cos I always ask myself "Am I really living if I can't say how l feel?"
It is interesting to distinguish “shyness” and “lack of confidence”
I am really not shy, (you never see me post anon, I don’t give a fuck basically, here or anywhere) but sometimes people interpret me as (1) shy and (2) snobby and both are incorrect. I just sometimes get lost in my thoughts and observation.
However, what makes “lack of confidence guys” not be able to claim this, to justify their behavior, is for me, it’s a temporary phase
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I am an Aries, as well as natural born leaderr. Day in and out, i zet bars go beyond limita. If hanot ft ound a man ti stands as i falter, ve brazen should I lack strength. Laugh aa i cry, make me laugh harder when chillaxin!!!
Confident! I love self assured men! its a msculine trait! and I am a sucker for masculine energy!
Confident guy, because i'm more attracted to extroverts.
What's an extrovert?
@danny2774 out going/confident person
Ahh I get you lol I'm dumb asf
Confident. It's good for people to have confidence in themselves.
I like confident guys. I NEED a confident guy. Shy guys are not for me. I like guys that aren't afraid to voice their opinion, tell me when I'm wrong and doesn't stay to them self when meeting/hanging out with friends.
More confident than shy but a combination of both. I think shy isn't the word for what I prefer actually. I like confident men who are laid back. But at the same time mutable and can make me laugh.
Same goes for men and women we all find confidence attractive. There is nothing cute about a guy who comes in looking down slouching his shoulders and doesn’t know how to hold a conversation. Same goes for women. Confidence is key! :)
I think there are way more shy people that don't act the way u mention above. A guys walks up to talk to u and seems confident doesn't mean he isn't shy. Sometimes a guy just have to act, break the ice then feel confident to continue the conversation depending on the girls reaction
We aren’t talking about shyness we are talking about confidence
u said there is nothing cute about a guy who comes looking down with a slouthing shoulder... That represents a shy guy.
I consider myself shy and I have to get my shit together and make a move. I seem confident but im sweating inside hoping only I notice im shaking. Only I know how nervous I am. I get really tense especially if she is really hot or I really like her but I manage. It works better if I think she is already into me. All these girls think Im not shy. I am just good at pushing myself cos I always ask myself "Am I really living if I can't say how l feel?"
It is interesting to distinguish “shyness” and “lack of confidence”
I am really not shy, (you never see me post anon, I don’t give a fuck basically, here or anywhere) but sometimes people interpret me as (1) shy and (2) snobby and both are incorrect. I just sometimes get lost in my thoughts and observation.
However, what makes “lack of confidence guys” not be able to claim this, to justify their behavior, is for me, it’s a temporary phase
Okay, you keep your looking up blushing and knows how to hold a conversation guy. just rediculous😂😂
Guys also go for shy girls, they don't mind if she can't hold the conversation. They hold the conversation like :)
Confident guy. Or at least confident enough to balance the interest.
I will like confident in front of others shy in front of me.
Sounds like me
So you are a leader type like
Nothing is sexier than confidence and attitude even if its an act.
For me its the confident guy than the shy type... because its not boring and fun to be with...
A confident guy who is well verse with his insecurities and is ready to work on them instead of avoiding them to drown himself in self pity.
Girls like confident guys for sure.. Being shy is good for a limit that can't make guys look introvert which is not okay for girls
Shy usually indicate being polite and confident comes from experience. Now would you want a guy that is polite or a mn experienced guy lol
This is difficult because I can go with either or to an extent.
I'm fine with shy or confident. I like the shy guy because it's cute.
Confidence is very attractive. But arrogance is a turnoff.
Confident guy of course. But shy guys are also cute
Confidence will always win mate. Unless the girl has serious confidence issues.
They want a confident guy. Girls are turned off by shy guys