I myself belong more to the shy category (not extremely, but yeah), so I wonder if that's a plus with guys or not...
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There’s a cute factor to shy. It makes you let your guard down and pull you into a more protective and nurturing energy. Like, “Don’t worry, I’ll take care of you.”
Men tend to like feeling like a hero. Here to save the day. It makes them feel helpful and useful—which seems to be an almost universal thing for men because it’s what often gives them a sense of self-worth, purpose, and meaning. (e. g. A man may adopt the responsibility of taking care of his family, to provide and protect, as their sole purpose in life.)
But confidence is important too, in terms of not having any major insecurities that would erode the relationship.
And many other things like low self-esteem or low self-worth can all create problems in a relationship if a girl isn’t confident enough.
So, I’d say the answer is a bit of both in the right ways.
Shyness, in terms of attraction and chemistry.
Confidence, in terms of practicality and stability.
Depending on the guy, one aspect may be more attractive than the other.
(Caveat: There is also a subset of men that are specifically more attracted to women who are more confident, powerful, and stronger than they are, who enjoy being dominated by their woman—these are men that have a submissive nature which they embrace. So for these men, they would not be drawn to shy women—as they like women who can put them in their place.)
That depnds on the guy. Now if you are intrested in dating the popular hot football player they're not intrested in dating shy girls he would be more likely 8ntrested in dating the confident popular leader of the cheerleading squa. But if its like any normal guy who ins't involve in sports then sure shy girl more more likely to getca chance. Advice stay with shy guys they're sweet loving caring. Foorball players are all womanizers at least in my young days.
I think more guys like confident girls just like more girls like confident guys but you will find the real good guys will like you even if you are shy.. so just be nice and friendly you will find someone..
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I'm kind of shy myself on the social scale, and I find it much easier to talk with a shy woman, myself.
The very confident women I've known tend to steamroller over other people, me incuded, and since I don't want to be pavement I'll try breaking the ice with someone I perceive as a bit shy.
Shyness can be over-done, though. Walking away or avoiding me when I'm walking toward her after working up the courage to do that walking doesn't work well for me. Also, being so shy that one stays home makes any possible social interaction impossible.
For me I want both in one person. I also want her to be smart, wise a caring and giving a loving person who's not afraid to speak her peace when she has to.
And she can speak with her eyes her touch and smile, to say what her heart feels, she's also has to be silly. A little crazy at times can laugh at herself and just has a very beautiful heartI like aggressive girls who know what they want and aren't afraid to go get it. I don't want to chase someone who doesn't want me & I'm not trying to make anyone uncomfortable with my advances. When she's upfront I can relax and let down my guard somewhat
You have a crowd for any type of girl! I've had a lot of success being shy, but also being really open towards new faces. Depending on my mood I am one or the other! Both can attract guys!
Shy ones probably prefer a shy girl, less scary talk to I think? That's my guess!Everyone prefers confidence. It does not mean you are not allowed to get nervous or shy, but you not letting it hold you back too much.
Despite that, I do think you'll be fine as long as you can talk to guys who approach you. I'd even start showing guys you like signs that you like them, since this can help guys approach you. Only experience helps get rid of being shy.i would say men prefer confident women full of confidence and say how she feels and strong not shy and really to shy to say her feeling i think that's how they prefer confident ones instead I know tuns of guy that prefer women with confidence my ex likes that about women and liked it about me
Usually only Weak , unconfident, beta males prefer shy girls. If a man is more confident and outgoing, he will prefer an outgoing female. And this is just coming from a chronically shy girl. It is usually the outgoing girls that get the guys. Shy girls usually get the least guys. This is because more outgoing girls tend to put themselves out there more, more guys tend to know them, they also tend to be more fun
For myself confident girls. In my experience shy girls give energy as they don't want you to bother them, and don't communicate well or have very little interest in communicating which is important to me.
Confident girls give off energy that's welcoming or makes you feel welcomed in their presence and are willing to communicate with you vs a shy is like you are talking to a wall.Shy girls are cute to guys and they love making them naughty. Confident girls usually mean more work for guys so they gravitate towards good or shy girls
I don't know what country you're in, but if you're in the U. S., confident translates to outgoing and sociable, and that translates to👉 fuckboy/pimp/wannabe gangsta magnet. Shy means values education and thinking for the long haul, and that attracts like minded guys... who are usually to be found in the background, like yourself.
I think a certain level of social skills is always a plus but shy girls can also find boyfriends. For girls it's not as big of a hinderance as for guys.
Well if she is a slut behind closed doors with me but shy and modest outside. That’s a turn on. But in general if I like her shyness woint necessary reject her.. it means to that she needs to take it slow and she needs to be submissive
Confident girls who don't come off as arrogant.
I think it's cute for a girl who is shy, for myself I am a shy guy. I like shy girls.
I definitely prefer a very confident, even arrogant woman.
doesn't factor in as long as she's kind and caring
We like when you can tell us how you feel, but we also like knowing we're useful/needed. We know you can take care of yourself but, just let us do something from time to time, ya know?
I don't think I have ever thought about that. When I'm attracted I just am. I do tend to approach a more loner looking girl. I am a bit of a loner.
both.
do girls prefer shy or confident guys?
I’m kind of an introvert and my guy loves me for me so I dunno maybe? Lol.
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