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Do you prefer confident or shy girls?
I'm fine with either if I'm attracted to them. Ofcourse the shy girls will be very difficult to get (or for them to get us) since hook-ups always are a mutual agreement lol. Same goes for guys.
On one note, extreme shyness/introvertedness can lead to misery in ones life. Hence the 30+ year old relationship virgins or any other intimately inexperienced people that exist.
It's a fact. Far more confident people exist. At least in this category. Or else humans would be very scarce on Earth lol.
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I prefer confident, but I can be okay with a shy girl AS LONG AS I know that her lack of feedback is due to shyness rather than disinterest. The problem is that both shyness and disinterest LOOK the same from the outside, and people naturally assume the worst. I'd have to have a way to find out she was interested in the beginning or nothing would ever get started.
It's hard to be confident (speaking-wise) because of my social anxiety. However when I push myself to be more talkative and outgoing, I notice guys find more of a liking to me.
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Not too extroverted, nor too introverted. You can't be wanting to talk 24/7 and party 365 days in a year, you also can't be as quiet as a graveyard. It's always going to be a medium. In between.
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Depends. Usually, confidence is attractive, but I don't necessarily want her to be the most extroverted girl in the room. A little shyness and reservation can go a long way.
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Shy girls are cute. So bashful. You can easily make them blush by saying they're cute.
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A little shyness can be cute and even expected to some degree, but like women like in guys, confidence is a turn on.
- 490 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.
They both possess unique qualities and I cannot prefer one over the other although that being said whoever smiled more I'd prefer.
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I like 'confident' girls. Because they don't hesitate to express their feelings. So I feel bit more comfortable with them.
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Confident girls that is for sure. Shy people are somewhat dangerous since they are very closed to the outside world, so they might hide something.
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I like there to be at least some confidence but she doesn't have to be super outgoing either.
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Shy. I find them intriguing and super adorable. My girlfriend is a shy girl.
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The stereotype that guys like shy girls is BS. No one likes someone who won't do anything or talk.
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Both but no extremes.
Not overly confident, not overly shy.
A shy girl can be more easily hurt without wanting to hurt her. -
no preference as both are fine
but the thing is i am shy and if she is also shy then who will initiate things otherwise doesn't matter :) -
Definitely confident for me. Not cocky. there's a difference. Shy ones are insecure most of the time and its not a good thing.
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I prefer confident girls because I'm too shy, I could never get into relationship with a shy girl, I need a girl who is ready to make the first move.
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Hot girls.
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My boyfriend likes that I'm confident
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It makes no difference to me.
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Confident tough girls for sure
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Girls want confident guys
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Confident, but she has to be somehow 'innocent'
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