Do you guys prefer confident girls?

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And if you can please explain your answer, it will help to me a lot

Regmorus · Accepted Answer

Absolutely. But for me confindent AND humble.

And about how to be confident. The only reliable and permanent source of confidence is within you. By the first session of establishing confidence you have to accept yourself first genuinely for who you are and there the journey begins. Then call to mind that every person has their own way to live, to achieve things, to do things, to interact with others. Then think about the saying that the abilities and properties of yourself that you have intrinsically or for development of which you have inner potential allow you to find your unique way to live your life that is exactly perfect for you, to achieve and get everything you need for happy and content life, because that's how the world and life work.

And from then on do the following. Observe your own ways of interaction and dealing with things and people. Try to answer yourself honestly now and then the question how YOU should approach this and that what is YOUR own unique way to get something done or to interact with people in a certain situation in order for results to be positive.

The most reliable and firm confidence comes from knowledge about yourself and from the certainty that you are perfectly suited for your life in any meaning, that you have everything inside you what is needed to deal perfectly with everything you want or you have in your life.

Learn to know yourself, learn to love yourself, learn to accept yourself completely and to see what is the connection of you with your life. Learn to love the way these connections are given in your case.

Then the inconfidence will vanish and will be replaced by unbreakable everlasting confidence.

If you follow this, it'll take approximately 3 months to get there. However if you are highly suggestive and able to catch the message of this text itself, it could have immediate effect.

Some things more: The psychological confidence is very closely related to confidence about your own body and body abilities. To make sports or to dance regularly (but I don't mean some mindless dancing for fun, I mean some dancing that allows you to feel your movements and the way of how your body and body parts work all together), to learn to know your body and it's limits or just to observe how you move, to move body parts with consciousness, to feel them move and just to feel separate body parts will have additional effect that srengthens confidence. It's perfect accompanement for things described above.

Good luck, You'll certainly rock it.

Venky25 · Accepted Answer

Confident or not, actually doesn't really matter. It's the heart of the guy that prefer's certain at a certain time. Also the personality matters as well, if u are confident but sound a whore, considering the boy's personality he might be interested for eg: a fuck boy type might take an interest. If you are not confident enough its okay as well, some girls tend to be shy, so do boys. A guy might like ur shy personality, he might also want to approach you but the problem might be what if the guy is the same as you, what if he's a bit scared consider what might have happened with him in the past. So, although u might be shy, but if you are interested try to drop some signs... Like hold his hands gently, Speak to him when he seems lonely, etc. If he is actually interested in you then it won't be long, he might just ask you out.

Anonymous · Answer

I picked option A because it was as close to what I feel. I wish there was a middle ground somewhere in the options presented. What I mean is that it's not really black or white in confidence.

I remember watching a video mentioning that people already have "confidence". They just need less fear. Girls can be confident alright.

Does this mean it's a deal-breaker if she is not comfortable? When it comes to guys, I'm sure women want a confident man as well.

But there's a thin line between confidence and cockiness/arrogance. The girl can be confident in certain areas of her life and or appearances, while she can also have an aspect of her where she is not so comfortable revealing to her other half. That takes time to open up - which is fine.

So what is the answer? A middle ground is fine by me - she can be full on self-assured in one area of her existence while also not have that same level of certainty in another.

If you don't know what to do to become a confident individual, please invest more tine into yourself for self-betterment. Take interest into a hobby of choice - you have to discover this on your own. A hobby will sort of give you a sense of mission to get good at something and that new purpose can give you confidence. Maybe reciting self-affirmations/ faking it till you make it can work as well.

All I can say is to not force confidence on yourself. It will take time to develop your character as you age and mature. Godspeed to you young lady!

JstForSmiles · Answer

"Confident" is a term that can be misinterpreted.
I've had lovers who were confident in who they were and possessed poise.
I've had lovers who were confident in their appearance and they were physically attractive.
I've had lovers who were confident in what they wanted from me and what they could offer me. They met me on a "mutual fantasy" basis.
On the other hand, I've met women who possessed a charm because they didn't exude confidence and placed their trust in their masculine partners.
All deserve my adoration. If you are a submissive, say so and enjoy the confidence of the submissive role.
Make no excuses for who you are!
Recognize you and be confident in whatever skin feels comfortable to you!

You know you! Don't regret being who you are!
Never... never... ever judge yourself on the basis of have (or not having) a specific type of relationship!
The reality is... even the most confident people are just faking it. Don't judge yourself!
You are okay to be you!

Aakash_Hangargi · Answer

Good question let's analyse what is confidence.
Confidence is merely taking action based on the effort you put you will get results.

Confidence something that you have on yourself you are sure of something certain that it's going to happen
For example there is a school test subject Science I have read everything I know i will pass with good grades because I knew the the topic I have prepared well so I am confident that whatever comes in paper I am sure I will write the answers and get good grade.

Being confident means taking action on certain situations it may be tough critical but you being sure of yourself that you will drive yourself out of the situation and emerge as champion.

How to build Confidence.
1. By not being too hard on yourself accept that you will make mistakes and learn from them.
2. Performing actions repeatedly untill you get the desired results
You will tuf every failure into success
3. So when you face similar situations you will be confident you can do it.
4. Gaining knowledge this is the most important part you have to have the knowledge of what you are talking about so analyse and acquire details of things that you need to for excelling the situation.
5. Cut the crap and focus on main issue and be direct in your speech means get to the point.
6. divide and rule method
Divide the topic into different zones priority wise so you can act on it part by part.
7. You can develop confidence by thinking you have the answer or capable of finding the answer for any problem be it relationship, work, school projects

F-eight · Answer

I'd say that confidence in being with a person is more like being comfortable with that person. For example, you when you're with a childhood bestfriend, won't think twice before talking or get conscious of things. Because you're comfortable talking and discussing and in other activities. I think it could also be about being shy in front of the person that you get more underconfident and agreeable. So basically you won't discuss a topic if your opinions don't are opposite to that of the person you're talking to. You'll be shy and underconfident and you'll just agree. And yes, it sometimes does matter. Guys do like women who voice their opinions too. But more like what you say matters instead of how you do.

I-am-a-nobody · Answer

Confident is ok,...
However self-centered, "the world needs to revolve around me" confident is very, very bad.

Nervous or shy can be fine and was almost preferable to me (when I dated).
But again if shy means "the guy needs to do all the work to keep the conversation going", that is not good either.

Take your time. Get to know guys as friends first.
Keep good relationships with female friends.

Don't hurry love.

Young women..., I charge you, do not stir up or awaken love until the appropriate time.
-Song of Solomon 8:4

igoforoldergirls · Answer

You have to have some feeling of belief in yourself. Staying confident isn't about what makes the guys like you, its what makes things workout with guys. If you dont think you are cute and say a guy named brad thinks you do, whats gonna make you wanna talk to him and feel like he deserves you. Being not confident and shy can stop you from having relationships. But remember to be confident and not cocky.

Anonymous · Answer

Women often have a very misconstrued concept of what “confident women” are. For example I was once friends with a girl who had a “alpha female” clothing line. She kept saying she was all about being outgoing and strong. But then she told me how she would just ghost guys on dates JUST because she felt like it and not because anything the specifically said. She claims she is confident but she was a selfish, insecure bitch.

Bitchy women aren’t confident. Like assholes they do douchey things because of their deep insecurities.

jalas4612 · Answer

That actually depends on what the guy finds attractive. Some dudes dont even care. I find confidence very attractive and it almost matters not what the girl or woman looks like or acts like. Watching a female who is in tune with her body is a sight for sure eyes and instantly arouses myself and I'm sure a large portion of the census.

AaronKrieger · Answer

Yes, being confident is attractive for the same reasons why you find confidence attractive in guys.

If you're not confident it'll lower the chances, but doesn't make it a definite for a guy to say no. You'll just need him to notice you, grow a pair and ask him out eventually, or move on.

theChineseWASP · Answer

Well I don't know how to answer that. On the one hand I don't like girls that are too shy. On the other hand I like it if a girl shows that she needs me. It's a balance between many different things. Not as simple as just one thing and not the other.

AlexanderBrunnrgaard · Answer

I definitely prefer confidence because of several reasons.
1. Confidence means they're much more their own person rather than, once being with you, define themselves entirely out of their relationship.
2. Less insecurity. Which means fewer fights stemming from that.
3. Confidence is attractive in itself, a woman who knows what she wants and goes for it. Is comfortable in expressing love, desire etc.

JSmuve · Answer

Confident is better than insecure. Because with insecurity, you constantly have to pump her up and reassure her. It's like fighting against a river every day and is super annoying. So yes, I'd rather have a confident girl than insecure, but not to the point of arrogance.

ChiTown33 · Answer

Confidence is attractive whether it be man or woman. But at least if you lack confidence you have the advantage of being a woman. It's not as required for a woman. It's a must have for a guy.
You don't need to set the world on fire you just need to be confident enough to be alluring. And don't worry about what guys think of you so much now. Guys at your age are flakey.

JimboGB · Answer

Yes, but confidence can be worked on and improved over time. You aren't going to be the same person next year as you are today. Work towards a better, stronger, more confident you tomorrow.

I like a confident woman because it takes confidence to handle my personality. There is nothing sexier than a confident woman. It takes a level of strength someone who's sure of themselves has. When you respect yourself, you are able to provide love to others.

Kezzz · Answer

I don't have a preference but yeah sure for the sake of answering I guess a confident girl would be good.
I like a girl who has the confidence to speak her mind no matter who she's talking to. Confidence is like a dirrct link to self worth. If she's confident, she definitely knows her worth and capabilities.

honestyisalliwant · Answer

Wow I‘m surprised 1/3 of the guys actually voted for unconfident that’s a lot more than I thought

woody7979 · Answer

I didn't vote because this is very difficult for me. I'm not always very confident so girls who are very confident can come across as a little over bearing or intimidating. However, if a girl is confident in a playful or flirty kind of way I do find that to be a turn on. That being said I think girls that lack confidence can be incredible because a relationship with someone like that requires a lot of sensitivity.

Anonymous · Answer

i definitely prefer unconfident girls because my compliments mean more to her. a girl that is already confident in herself won't think anything of my compliments. girls that are too insecure can be annoying but girls that are overconfident are the absolute worst.

LoU_Hades · Answer

confident = yes overconfident... arrogant, inflated ego = nope unconfident but with good developed common sense = yes

Goma15 · Answer

I like girls who are at least a bit humble and I like shy girls. I tend to like them better and I tend to find them easier to get along with, personally.

MannMitAntworten · Answer

Absolutely. I do not gel with insecure women. Nor insecure men for that matter. As easy going as I am I just cannot stomach indecisive insecure people. Take effing action!

Malachi69 · Answer

Yes but don't like the loud one in the group who thinks she knows best and like always sets herself up as group activity leader or some dumb shit like that

DanoMR98 · Answer

Date a girl who is confident because if you date one who isn't, her insecurities will destroy your relationship -- and your life as long as you're in it.

Secret6620 · Answer

I guess it just depends on the guy... Some guys are turned off by girls with low self esteem and others are turned on by that... 🎀

Jackpot77 · Answer

No I like the opposite because if she is too confident she is going to cheat and going to be hard to deal with

Flower7 · Answer

I prefer unconfident guys because I like shy guys the best.

TommyLee73 · Answer

I like clingy women with daddy issues. At least that is the type I always get. A lack of intelligence would be a problem for me not a lack of confidence. They don't have to be a genius but I dont want to try and have a conversation with a dummy

SenseiSeptred · Answer

I am the person that ends up bringing the big confidence boost to people in general, so I might not be able to say either way.

willisg · Answer

Confident and attitude is two different things. Sometimes attitude look like confidence.  Make sure you know what type of confidence you mean.

Aaron_Stone · Answer

How do you percieve your behavior in front of guy? What makes you think you aren't confident enough?🧐

Jones_T · Answer

Yeah confident person Extra positive... These skills we must develop... I like confidence people be around

gmares85 · Answer

Confident is hot cuz is the same with you ladies you love a men with confidence

Professor5533 · Answer

Im shy af and won't push myself on	owards anyone😅 So a confident girl definetly has my go ahead to get close

wellhack · Answer

I'd don't mind either one but if I were not to have a confident woman my goal is to raise her confidence up

morrowlow · Answer

I don't care if a girl is confident. But if by confident you mean loud and bitchy then i'd prefer a girl who's not confident at all

farhaan7part2 · Answer

Just be honest and open to him don't go in circles.

LEADFOOTboi · Answer

i like them confident... bitchy... and with good values

gym4ever · Answer

doesn't matter, but being not confident is cute af cuz ofc im ultra alpha male and i can teach her.

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

Personally, confident. Confident people are more engaging and more to be around and talk to.

Torari · Answer

I don't care either way, as long as she's extremely feminine in her confidence/insecurity.

Uncut · Answer

Yes absolutely but let’s not confuse confidence with arrogance.

alexander_the_gr8 · Answer

I don't know most the time the confident girls r not fun to talk to

leonidas69 · Answer

Confidence is not necessary. Bravery at times is.

J_12_L · Answer

There’s pros and cons on both sides

Jeff9743 · Answer

I'll take anyone I can get at this point lol

Apope16 · Answer

Thats a DUH. next question

Liadon · Answer

I really don't mind either way.

NorthwestRider · Answer

I like confident independent dominant women

bklynbadboy1 · Answer

Definitely confident and confidence is sexy

damo1971 · Answer

confidence is the sexiest feature we have

Hotboy_booblover · Answer

Yes but not over smart types

Cryptic-Game · Answer

Men prefer confident women.

mojikomi · Answer

how old are you?

7771999 · Answer

I don't mind either

AlainD1991 · Answer

I do

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