Guys, are you more attracted to Shy or Confident girls?

So women in general (not always) tend to be attracted to confidence, but i'm not sure what most guys tend to prefer. (the GIFs are just examples)

Guys, are you more attracted to Shy or Confident girls?
Guys, are you more attracted to Shy or Confident girls?

  • Guys, are you more attracted to Shy or Confident girls?Shy.
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  • Guys, are you more attracted to Shy or Confident girls?Confident.
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Most Helpful Guy

  • I like both, but if she is too shy to the point where she is scared to do anything or is socially awkward even when she should be comfortable with me? Then that's where I draw the line

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    • Yeah, i think if the other person can't communicate or get comfortable with you, you can't even get to know them in the first place.

    • Exactly hun

Most Helpful Girl

  • Guys say shy girls until they see a confident girl. It’s the same thing with makeup. 80% of guys say they like women without makeup, but that wouldn’t be the case if they it was actually put into reality they would choose the better looking women.

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What Guys Said 52

  • I like confident without arrogance. She doesn't outwardly show it, but test her and she will prove it.

    there's a commercial that i can't remember for the life of me who it was for (some fragrance i think). It's three young pretty girls talking about a handsome man at the bar of a hotel or something, saying why he needs a girl who has this, that and the other. Then a fourth older woman walks down and said, sorry girls, he's had a woman.

    I remember being amazed by her.

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  • For me I tend to shy girl, because I feel like she is Innocent and like a child and maybe because I'm kind of shy person too... but I think the like the confident men

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    • I tend to prefer confident, but if they're a little shy at first thats cool too :)
      long as they open up.

    • Good , I agree with , that will give some respect to each and in the same time doesn't mind to know each other well

  • SHY SHY SHY SHY SHY. Shy, insecure, fragile girls strike a deep attraction with me and have been my most intimate relationships.

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  • I like Shy girls they are so adorable. <3 XD :-P :-D ;-)

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  • shy, because i simple don´t have patience to be going out all the time, i don´t have so much patience with the mediocrity of people nowadays to be honest.

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  • I like both shy and confident women, but the confident woman is usually more approachable and her personality is normally more discernable, as personality is very important to me.

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  • I guess I'm a bit more attracted to confident girls. I just melt when a girl looks at me with curious eyes really close and asks questions and acts all excited.

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  • That sassy bravado could a coping mechanism for a deep-rooted insecurity.

    I'm attractive to smart, pleasant women who don't mess me around or belittle me for not agreeing with her.

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    • I completely agree. I fee like guys can sometimes do that too as a way to try and control.

  • Both have their own merits, I feel more comfortable around confident women because they seem less fragile, but shy girls just makes want to protect them 😊

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  • Definitely confident.

    Confidence is a big, big turn on to me. I think most guys on G@G will prefer shy, though (he says, before voting)...

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  • These are not exclusive options. Shy girls can be confident too. I think you meant shy and outgoing or outspoken

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  • Whats this confident bullshit?

    None of that matters.

    Any girl who is nice, intelligent, honest and not a cheap slut.

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  • As long as she has confidence with me, that is what I want.

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  • I rather have someone who is confident. Some who isn't afraid to say how they feel or what they think. If they think what I did something sweet. It is nice to hear the compliments, it nice to hear how they feel deep down even if it is embarrassing.

    -She feels more sincere because she express how she feels
    -she is more adventurous
    -she is better at holding a conversation
    etc

    Compared to the shy girl that is too afraid to do a lot of things. She is too afraid to invite you anywhere because you might say no.
    -Too afraid so talking to her can be frustrating because she doesn't say much.
    -shy girls aren't really adventurous or spontaneous.
    - she will rarely tell you how she feels because she definitely does not want to be embarrassed.
    - A lot of this things she will do will be awkward or she will do it all round about. Instead of being direct and too the point like the confident girl.
    etc

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  • I guess confident, but it's not really a deal breaker

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  • Apparently my ideal is the very pure nice and sweet girl, but I always end up with bitchy chicks that seem to attract me somehow.

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  • I'm indifferent, as long as a mutual attraction is there.

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  • Both, shy girls can be very cute and fun. Confident girls can be very sexy

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  • I'm gay

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  • I'm attracted who i'm attracted to

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  • I'm a shy guy so it would be convenient ifca confident woman was attracted to me.

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  • Depends if confident means arrogant? If so then NO!

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  • Shy, I am shy too.

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  • I like a mix.

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  • Both.

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  • Shy girls there cute😋

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  • confident. they're less work... ;)

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  • Neither. I like COCKy girls. Makes me damp

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  • Used to be SHY
    now
    no time for such silliness

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  • both, but i like shy girls more

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What Girls Said 11

  • To all the guys out there replying with vague answers... Based on my experience, a more confident guy will prefer a confident, driven woman by his side. If the man is less confident, he will go for girls more like himself.

    Just a point: shy is not always a synonym for insecure.

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    • would say it has more to do with personality than confidence. in my experience a demure girl is just a good contrast where a driven confident girl can be quite the headache

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    • You're right. I think personality plays a bigger role

    • @themon09 I agree I notice shy guys like girls that are more shy than them. The really outgoing girl will intimidate them and they will just clam up. Compare to the shy girl.

  • confident and sassy & slutty are too different things. many guys and women mistake the second for the first. confidence is more subtle low profile and deep.

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  • I fell for a really good looking and sweet guy, but he's shy too. It can be confusing.

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  • I’m sure it depends on the guy, but I’m expecting more like confident girls.

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  • I think they like the confident ones

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  • I like shy. Lmao.

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  • Every women is adorable

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  • Confident

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  • guys take shy girls for granted

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  • I don't think shyness and confidence are related though , you can be a shy and confident girl. the opposite of confidence would be lack of confidence which is related to low self esteem or insecurities , while shyness is more of a reserved type of girl , its natural but it doesn't mean the girl lacks confidence.

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  • Confident

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