Guys, are you more attracted to Shy or Confident girls?
What Guys Said 52
I like confident without arrogance. She doesn't outwardly show it, but test her and she will prove it.
there's a commercial that i can't remember for the life of me who it was for (some fragrance i think). It's three young pretty girls talking about a handsome man at the bar of a hotel or something, saying why he needs a girl who has this, that and the other. Then a fourth older woman walks down and said, sorry girls, he's had a woman.
I remember being amazed by her.
SHY SHY SHY SHY SHY. Shy, insecure, fragile girls strike a deep attraction with me and have been my most intimate relationships.
shy, because i simple don´t have patience to be going out all the time, i don´t have so much patience with the mediocrity of people nowadays to be honest.
I like both shy and confident women, but the confident woman is usually more approachable and her personality is normally more discernable, as personality is very important to me.
I guess I'm a bit more attracted to confident girls. I just melt when a girl looks at me with curious eyes really close and asks questions and acts all excited.
That sassy bravado could a coping mechanism for a deep-rooted insecurity.
I'm attractive to smart, pleasant women who don't mess me around or belittle me for not agreeing with her.
Both have their own merits, I feel more comfortable around confident women because they seem less fragile, but shy girls just makes want to protect them 😊
Confidence is a big, big turn on to me. I think most guys on G@G will prefer shy, though (he says, before voting)...
These are not exclusive options. Shy girls can be confident too. I think you meant shy and outgoing or outspoken
Whats this confident bullshit?
None of that matters.
Any girl who is nice, intelligent, honest and not a cheap slut.
As long as she has confidence with me, that is what I want.
I rather have someone who is confident. Some who isn't afraid to say how they feel or what they think. If they think what I did something sweet. It is nice to hear the compliments, it nice to hear how they feel deep down even if it is embarrassing.
-She feels more sincere because she express how she feels
-she is more adventurous
-she is better at holding a conversation
Compared to the shy girl that is too afraid to do a lot of things. She is too afraid to invite you anywhere because you might say no.
-Too afraid so talking to her can be frustrating because she doesn't say much.
-shy girls aren't really adventurous or spontaneous.
- she will rarely tell you how she feels because she definitely does not want to be embarrassed.
- A lot of this things she will do will be awkward or she will do it all round about. Instead of being direct and too the point like the confident girl.
I guess confident, but it's not really a deal breaker
Apparently my ideal is the very pure nice and sweet girl, but I always end up with bitchy chicks that seem to attract me somehow.
I'm indifferent, as long as a mutual attraction is there.
Both, shy girls can be very cute and fun. Confident girls can be very sexy
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What Girls Said 11
To all the guys out there replying with vague answers... Based on my experience, a more confident guy will prefer a confident, driven woman by his side. If the man is less confident, he will go for girls more like himself.
Just a point: shy is not always a synonym for insecure.
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confident and sassy & slutty are too different things. many guys and women mistake the second for the first. confidence is more subtle low profile and deep.
I fell for a really good looking and sweet guy, but he's shy too. It can be confusing.
I’m sure it depends on the guy, but I’m expecting more like confident girls.
I like shy. Lmao.
guys take shy girls for granted
Every women is adorable
I don't think shyness and confidence are related though , you can be a shy and confident girl. the opposite of confidence would be lack of confidence which is related to low self esteem or insecurities , while shyness is more of a reserved type of girl , its natural but it doesn't mean the girl lacks confidence.
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