Girls, Are you attracted to confident guys or timid guys?

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CONFIDENT
The word confident means trust - con fidere (with trust) in Latin.
Confidence itself literally means: feeling or showing confidence in one's abilities or qualities.
Synonyms are: self-assured, assured, sure of oneself, self-confident, positive, assertive.

TIMID
The word timid comes from timere in Latin, meaning fear.
Literally translating to: showing a lack of courage or confidence; easily frightened.
Synonyms are: easily frightened, lacking courage, fearful, apprehensive, afraid, frightened, scared, faint-hearted.

Now would partner male or female want to spend rest of their lives with someone who believes in themselves, or someone who doesn't? (in a very harsh world where only the fittest survive)

Confidence is a trait both men and women need. In this world to survive you need a backbone, assertiveness and the ability to believe and trust in yourself.

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[Fitness-Fanatic]

Somewhere in between.

I dislike over confident guys. The type who are cocky and arrogant.

If a guy is too shy and timid then I'd find it difficult to get to know him. So he'd need to be open about himself, his life and feelings or it would be a deal-breaker. Being Too shy or too cocky is a turn off

[RJGraveyTrain]

Confident.

[Anonymous]

This is hard to judge. See I like both. In the past my crushes we're all somewhat shy or in the middle. But even when they mightve liked me too it was hard to be sure, as a shy girl, it was hell trying to ask them out myself (because im so unsure about their feelings). So I voted confident because at least then I would know how they felt.

[cuddlycub]

Timid guys are cute... but not too timid that they can't start nor lead (even just once in a while) a relationship

[PinkMichae]

The issue with guy's that aren't confident is they are very negative about themselves. They don't believe you when you tell them they are great. And then you gotta deal with them taking out their insecurities on you. You can tell them to make sure their little girl isn't in our room by herself so she doesn't get into my jewelry and he'll get defensive because in his insecure mind you just told him he's a bad dad that doesn't keep an eye on his child.

[laprincesa13]

I prefer kinda timid guys, since confident guys tend to be so self centered and shit (from my experiences)

[wildneko]

Confident guys only because I am also very timid, but timid guys always make me want to take care of them and tell dirty jokes to see their reaction lol

[ToxicKisses]

Confident, but I also love a guy that is kinda shy but loosens up after a bit if talking

[Lynnh]

I definitely feel more relaxed around timid guys, it's really nice to see how guys get comfy with me (if they do lol). Basically, I just don't like when guys are like "hey beautiful" like no. Please no. That's weird

[SnowDrop16]

Confident, but it's just because I'm a very shy person myself 😅 I don't like overly confident guy though.

However, my current boyfriend is a super timid guy. waaaaaaay more timid than me. And it's still worked. So don't lose hope! 😁

[Jennifer398]

I like a timid guy I can show him what I like done and he is not like no I will do it this way