Girls, would you prefer an attractive shy dude or an average confident guy?

[killer4212]

Attractive but shy

Average but confident

[DarkHeartsFartApart]

In my experience, i attract a lot of eyes, but am too shy to do anything about it and in turn woman are too intimidated to approach me. The real kicker is that i have a good personality too. Not being cocky i just have a easy time making people laugh and have a good time. But i dont know how to transition this into sexual tension so i end up with a lot of confused girls who probably beat themselves up over me when its really a me problem.

[Bananaman177]

Women consider the guy you posted to be "average."

So they'll say they want an average guy who's confident, but when they say average, they quite literally mean a guy who's in the top 5% of looks, height, penis size, and money. That's their idea of "average."

[MollyTheOriginal]

Attractive and shy: the first speaks for itself, but in the case of the second, I can't stand arrogant guys, so I'd prefer the former. It also suggests he's chill and down to earth, which are always good qualities in my book. It's likely he'll also be more engaging, since you're not just another long line of conversations with women he's had.

[MaverickAngel]

I actually prefer the shy, sweet guy (whether or not he's more attractive). But that is not to be confused with a doormat or a guy with serious self esteem issues... Did you just mean socially confident or generally confident? (I'm asking as I dont see confidence as the opposite of shy except in a purely social context)

[emmily2396]

shy and confident are neccessarly related. I am shy too, I get tense when I need to speak in front of lots of people or when I am around specific people. However, I don't believe I lack something, I am aware of my qualities and flaws.

[killer4212]

What you're talking about is self confidence

[Izumiblu]

I’m lost where it seems to imply shy guys can’t be confident?

I also can’t really separate personality from physical looks so I guess I have to say I’m fine with either. No preference based on the info given.

[AllThatSweetJazz]

It's implied because shy is an antonym for confidence.

[Anonymous]

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What’s happening to women, they prefer an attractive shy guy? Psss...

Anyway, I prefer an average and confident man with whom I could hold a real conversation! 😊

[killer4212]

What's wrong with an attractive shy dude?

[Legendary_Shark]

You think shy guys can't hold conversations? Sorry to say but that's dumb!

[MollyTheOriginal]

Exactly Shark. Confident guy may be more of a talker, but it doesn't mean he's more engaging, or intellectually stimulating to talk to.

[Opinion Owner]

Wow! I didn’t know my opinion had so much audience and critiques here! Anyway, chill people! Is just my preference for confident guys. And yes assuming that a shy guy is always quiet, that’s like thinking they have a permanent zipper in their mouth! 🤐 I like confident guys because They tend to take the lead more often than shy guy, and yes, they are more talkative. Also, this list has narrowed the real options of life, because there are attractive confident men just like there is a vast of average shy guys... so all of you, chill and focus on you’re preferences, don’t just get ready to shred others to pieces for thinking differently than you, be happy. Geez 😄😄😄😄

[MollyTheOriginal]

Nobody's shredding anything, it's a conversation, lol. You're misunderstanding tone.

[Opinion Owner]

Dear, don’t take me personal please! I’m speaking to 3 people at the same time here. So chill 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[MollyTheOriginal]

I'm not, but it sounded as if you took it personally by telling everyone to chill :P

[Opinion Owner]

Ha that’s cool, you can take my words as you please querida. That’s your perception of my words and intention, and I’m not planning to change it! If you don’t want to chill, yo si! 😘☕️🖥🍰

[MollyTheOriginal]

Haha, I'm perfectly chill, thank you very much :) Just a friendly hint: no need to go off on everyone who wants to reply to your message, lol.

[Opinion Owner]

My dear original Molly! I’m chillin and I’m lazy, so I’m trying to save time responding to every single opinion individually! 🥤😎

[Legendary_Shark]

Dear Anon opinion owner, I guess everyone got an urge to reply coz your opinion started with "What's happening to women" which isn't only a personal view lmao,

& Then pot calls the kettle black...
"Don't just get ready to shred others to pieces for thinking differently"
(I agree with your above statement though 😊)

[Opinion Owner]

Dear legendary fish, my opinion is so personal, that if you like it you can take it, if not you can argue as much as you want about it but that won’t change my perception. You want to include yourself in the bunch of women, you want o include your self in my “what’s happening to women” statement, that’s your problema, that’s my statement and I make it as general as I want to. If the shoes fit you, is your choice to put them on. About women who prefer the shy dudes. If you like them, good for you, be happy! I don’t mind expressing my general opinion as you can see. 🍹😎⛱☀️

[killer4212]

*grabs popcorn *

[Opinion Owner]

Tahhh dahhhh!

THE END

🍿😂

[killer4212]

Aww man. I was enjoying it😂

[Opinion Owner]

Thank you for the MHO! 😊👍🏼

[Cynicaldreamer]

Average confidence for sure!

The average guy might not look as attractive as the shy guy, but he's confident in himself and what he can do or has, so that's way more appealing to me.

[Logorithim]

This is a good question- would also be good to see the distribution of the girls' response by age. I suspect once they hit their 30s, more women want the confident guy.

[Attractivegirl899]

And why would them hitting 30 make them want a confident guy?

[Logorithim]

@Attractivegirl899: As they get older, women tend to get more confident and have a better sense of what they want, so there is a natural tendency to expect more of that in a guy. This isn't to say that it hits on a particular calendar date, rather it happens over time.

[Attractivegirl899]

@Logo but you were just calling them unattractive? So now they are getting confident? Which one is it?

[Logorithim]

@Attractivegirl899: I don't know why you constantly put words in my mouth- I said nothing about anyone's attractiveness. People and their preferences change over time.

[WARMAIDEN]

I wouldn't say shy and confident are related in any way. You can be shy and still be extremely confident, you just don't have an outgoing personality.

[FriedPickles1218]

Love that answer.

[Dankster96]

I'll have to guess it's the latter. I've seen too many fat ugly bastards with hot chicks not to believe that.

[MascGirls]

Considering that I'm fine with either shyness or being "average", I'd have to say both! Average but confident is more likely to date women though considering he actually asks them out.

[Gothd011]

I can't vote i would like both... but those shy one have the best tricks up their uh... sleeves *blushes*

[Meoir34]

I like shy guys. They are not cocky or arrogant, and are often nicer than the confident ones. They also fear rejection too which makes them sensitive, which is an admirable quality.

[TacosRAwesome]

I'm cool with both but average confident has higher chance since he's more likely to approach. If he's attractive, I usually assume he's confident but not interested.

[SillyAssGoose]

Confident. They’re usually more funny. But either is ok

[AlexanderBrunnrgaard]

Gonna take a guess at predicting here: Most will like an attractive but shy guy.

[DakotaNorth]

Michael is attractive and shy. He's just not as shy as me.

[CharlotteE]

I prefer an attractive and shy guy, but that's just because I'm shy too. I don't necessarily lack confidence, but there are some people I just connect with better than others.

[Anonymous]

They'll always aim for attractive, they'll always think they can fix them.

As a man, your efforts are worth shit to them, and you should know that if you're unattractive.

[Anonymous]

They generally want assholes or ugly guys with money.

[Opinion Owner]

But will never admit it, because children never admit to their faults.

[Pinay_ako]

I am cool with both.

[isweatergawd]

😶😶😶

[Pinay_ako]

@isweatergawd what is that

[rgb008]

either are cool with me.

[SoulfullWanderer]

I could love either, to be honest.

[gothgirl997]

Depends on the rest of his interests

[Justcallmealy]

Attractive and shy... That's a hot combination :D

[Kurdishturk]

I don't really care.

[Turkishkurd]

I won't mind either

[Attractivegirl899]

Attractive shy guy

[moonpie89]

Confident

[Chthou95]

Interesting question