I like this lady but she only dates wealthy guys, should I still date her?

[Anonymous]

She comes from a wealthy family and so do I, she seems only interested in guys who come from wealthy families like her. I've known her for a while and she doesn't pay any mind to guys who aren't wealthy, she only dates guys with lots of money. She agreed to go out with me and I do really like her.

[BetaBucks]

I couldn't date her, but if you don't care about being a resource (most guy don't care, and some like it) then go for it. You'll always question if she truly loves you as a person, or if she loves you as a plow horse. I. e. if your utility is gone, so is her love.

[Asker]

I don't mind being a resource, my goal is to make her happy. We grew up together and I've liked her for a while now.

[BetaBucks]

Good luck to you bro

[Plugs]

Why do u like her by the way

[BetaBucks]

@Plugs it's because she's attractive. Better looking than he is. Plus, she gives him attention, so it triggers those tingly feelings. It's like a drug. It fades so quickly tho...

[Asker]

@Plugs I've known her since we were kids and we played together, I enjoy her company.

[Asker]

@betabucks Also that.

[ProbablyClueless]

She's already agreed to go out with you, so she clearly thinks you meet her minimum requirements.

Why not just go with the flow and see where the interaction takes you? You don't need to have any answers right now, do you?

[Asker]

I suppose not.

[avery58]

Up to you but she seems shallow 🤷‍♀️

So it depends on if you're comfortable with that aspect of her personality

[Asker]

I think it's worth it.

[StevenMcGarrett]

Well, if she already said yes to the date, then obviously she is making an exception for you. Do the best you can. Good luck.

[Asker]

I also come from a wealthy family

[Plugs]

Then what’s the problem if u are equally wealthy as her

[Asker]

@Plugs I was wondering if that made her shallow.

[Asker]

@Plugs Maybe not shallow per say but, any chance she likes me beyond my wealth?

[Plugs]

Lol 😂 u aren’t wealthy compared to her lol

[Asker]

@Plugs Why do you say that?

[Plugs]

Then u wouldn’t be worrying

[LiamJHayden]

Nope.

[Asker]

I don't think I can resist her.