What makes you fall in love?

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For me, it's definitely when he shows compassion or makes me laugh unexpectedly.

razelove · Accepted Answer

Being able to let my guard down, and the likelihood of making babies.

My wife was very naive and sheltered when I met her, so I didn't have to worry much about getting burned. She wanted a family too, and was very loving.

I'm honestly not sure what else stood out about her besides that. It isn't being Asian, I actually disliked other Asian women I dated, so no dice. Looks, money, pretty much anything else I've had better. I can't think of anyone else I've been able to let my guard down around that much, and genuinely look forwards to getting a house and having a family with though.

I highly doubt I'd find that feeling again either. Too much to lose now for me to ever feel that relaxed or hopeful like that again.

Lurix · Accepted Answer

For me, it’s all about those little moments where she’s just herself. When she shows real kindness, not just to me, but to everyone around her. And yeah, making me laugh when I least expect it hits different too! 😂 But also, when she’s supportive and got my back no matter what, that loyalty is everything. It’s the mix of being real, goofy, and caring that gets me every time.

Account · Accepted Answer

That is a great question.  Do you want a genuine answer not based on assumption?  Truth is that I have absolutely no clue.

PeachyPie93 · Accepted Answer

His smile, his intellect, when I feel we get along and have fun together.

AviatorTom · Answer

No one knows why love happens. Love has been painted, written about, and acted about for centuries, yet no one understands it. LOVE is a four-letter word... that just happens... or not.

paledreams · Answer

How the woman looks, how the woman makes me feel, how I feel about the woman.  Ah well, it never happened yet I'm happier single :P as my story keeps unfolding 📚📖

NathanDavis · Answer

genuine confidence... and of course, mutual interest... I've never fallen in love by myself, a one sided thing is not love... it's more like infatuation

Daniela1982 · Answer

Falling in love is not all it's cracked up to be.

Maybe_Maybe_not · Answer

When there isn't any obstacle: Exceptionally good company?

AmazonChick171 · Answer

Someone’s amazing personality and when they’re being real about themselves. Also feisty. A person that’s nice and sweet all the time is BORING.

soe11 · Answer

Honesty, dignity trustworthy Intelligent, academic  Slimmer, sexier, attractive and never shy to wear revealing outfits publicly.

ProbablyClueless · Answer

Gentleness. I've encountered such little true gentleness in life that I find it to be a very strong aphrodisiac in women.

Nikki1989 · Answer

A deep sense of understanding and empathy.

ManInChains · Answer

Nothing. My capability to fall in love died in 2018

SunnyRS · Answer

It's the confidence, assertiveness and a bit of possessiveness that makes me fall for someone.  But there is line to all three of these things if they exceed those lines it becomes rough.

msc545 · Answer

An unfortunate conjunction of neurotransmitter releases apparently.

Texaskid1 · Answer

What a great question.  One which I have no idea how to answer.

Danny_dan92 · Answer

Chemistry. Without a doubt

Anonymous · Answer

When she has a lot of money.

Jpie555 · Answer

Personality + physical attraction

WhitneySnow · Answer

Me too

Anonymous · Answer

Combination of looks and personality.

chocolatetwopointo · Answer

money for sure

Anonymous · Answer

Kindness.

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