Can you tell the difference between someone playing hard to get Vs. not interested in dating in general?

[Danny_dan92]

[mandyfire98]

If somebody is seriously interested, they won't play hard to get. There will be no playing involved.

[Danny_dan92]

Agreed lol they won’t be having you roll the dice until you pass go

[mandyfire98]

Plus you don't want somebody who plays games like that anyway

[Danny_dan92]

Hell no, I would want a girl that is eager to take me to bed

[ProbablyClueless]

If she's playing any games at all, you really ought to just cut bait and run.

Usually, their friends' behavior and relationship situation can give you a good indication of what kind of lady you're dealing with. Someone who surrounds herself with committed women isn't generally going to be the type to play those sorts of games.

[TheStaleMarshmellow]

"Playing" hard to get just means your not interested enough to care about a relationship. You're in it for the attention. Big difference.

[Hannajenky]

I am pretty clueless when it comes to reading people

[Dongie]

There were times in my 20s I guessed the wrong way so I just stopped. If there was one I thought playing such I'd just say something like, " hard to get gets us no where". And move on.